glenmar
Posted : 4/26/2007 5:02:53 AM
By the time he was 12, the public school system had given up on my nephew. He started the two year college at that age, finished at 14, simply because his parents slowed him down and then spent two years cooling his heels since they wouldn't let him go AWAY to school until he was 16. He had earned his PHD by the time he was 21 and at 26 is a full prof at a respected university. He actually had the job before he had finished his defense. Interestingly, he does NOT have a high school diploma....yet he has a PHD.
To be honest, I prefer having raised an ADHD child. Jon never had any sort of "normal" childhood, and not for want of his parents trying with scouts and sports, but Jon wasn't accepted on team sports, he was just too different and couldn't relate to the typical kids. We had a family reunion when he was nine and he proudly announced that his "current hobby" was computer programming. Yikes! Yep, the typical 9 year old is gonna wanna play with the kid who is that smart! Not. So his growing up years were pretty tough. My sis and her husband REALLY tried to make this normal, but there was only so much that they could do.
Jon was driven by something inside himself to learn from a very early age. Yes, he has an IQ that is through the roof, but this boy simply craves the mental stimulation that comes from learning like most kids crave junk food.
And perhaps this young lady near Detroit is similar.