Best Friend what sex

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    Best Friend what sex

    Just a random question What sex is your best friend?(Dogs don't count the human kind hehe) just had a call from my best friend and he is male I'm female and many find this weird even more so since we were "involved" or should I say friends with benefits but that stopped years ago and I have a long term partner. Just wondering if there are many other females that have male best friends. I relate better to men than I do with females I'm a bit bitchy to get along with gaggles of females I'm alright if there is a just a few around hehe This is Shane my best friend thinking he is sexy yes I know NO hehe

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    I'm female and consider my bf to be my best friend.  Outside of my boyfriend my best friends are all male, but they are gay.  I think I would find it hard to be best friends with a straight guy and not date him.
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    For 18 years my best friend was a guy.  Sadly, he was killed in a car accident.  The person who I consider my best friend now is a girl.  I am also very close with an ex of mine, but I refuse to revisit the "friends with benefits" arangement.
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    My husband. So, male.
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    BF, also male obviously, but before that it was a male too. He sadly passed away from cancer. Now other than BF, my best friend would probably be my old best friend's sister.

    I have two other girlfriends that I consider close, and other then that the rest are guys.
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    My best friends (I have 2) are both female - I tend to talk about a lot of girly things w/ my best friends and we swap annoyances about our SOs lol so it would make having a male best friend a bit difficult; I do have one male friend who is pretty close though.

    I don't really consider my fiance my best friend perse because our relationship is pretty darn different from my relationships w/ my 'best friends'; obviously he and I are incredibly close and talk about pretty much everything, but my best friends are the ones I talk to about my guy problems and things that really aren't appropriate for me to be discussing w/ my fiance lol.
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    My husband, but I have a very close female friend since High School, both of us being married to military men brought us even closer.
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    My best friend is my DH, but my closest friend is the one I had since I was 2 years old...she's a girl.
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    Currently, my best friend is ME..so therefore female. [:D]  After me comes my hubby without a doubt.
     
    But throughout school and and well into my late 30's my favorite people to hang out and spend time with have been male.  I also had one or two very close female friends in school.
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    DH is my best friend, so male - but I also have a best friend, female. 
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    For you girls whose best friend is a boy, I might mention the movie, "When Harry Met Sally."  Harry said a guy can't be friends with a girl unless he wants to do her.  [:)]
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    My best friend, or rather, the only person besides my family I seem to be able to keep in touch with, is a guy. We actually seem to not be talking at the moment, though, so maybe that's not so true anymore. We have a really strange relationship. We've had several little "breaks" in friendship in the 4 1/2 years I've known him, and one or two really nasty fights. No wonder people can't believe we're not together, but we're not, and never have been. [8|] 
     
    I don't have any girl friends. Haven't since I was like 10. I just can't get along with females outside my family, it seems.
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    Well my husband is my best friend, but outside of him....

    I've gone back and forth. I haven't had one best friend throughout my entire life. In high school, male all the way. I just could not stand the bitchiness and judgemental attitudes of my female friends. The female friend who I'd been closest with in middle school I felt really betrayed me in high school, all just to gain the acceptance of the guys we both knew. She betrayed herself too, because she was incredibly intelligent but acted ditzy around guys. My very best friends in high school were all guys, one gay, the rest straight.

    In college my best friend was my roommate, and she was my maid of honor at my wedding. But I had a lot of male friends that I was also really close with, but, uh, I had a hard time not dating them eventually. Self control issues. [;)] After college by best friend was a guy and we sort of had a proto-thing but decided against it. My husband was one of his groomsmen when he got married a few years ago.

    Right now the person I consider to be my closest friend is female. But neither of us are girly at all. At. All. It's nice to have a girlfriend who I can talk about girl stuff with but who isn't saddled with all kinds of the girly stuff I dislike.

    Meanwhile, every single one of my husband's close friends are female. When we got married, he really only had one guy he could ask to be his best man, and that guy refused ("didn't believe in marriage" ie, going through a divorce and being bitter). So I had a maid of honor and he had a best woman (in the program we just referred to them as "Bride's and Groom's Attendants"). One of his oldest friends and one of the two mutual friends that introduced us is a lesbian and she's many times expressed a desire to have him be the sperm donor when she's ready to have a child. I actually think it's great! It's awesome to be married to a guy who doesn't have any issues with women and prefers their company!
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    My best friend is my GF. Very closely followed by a furry neutered male (I know, I know, you said dogs don't count). My next closest friend is a male.
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    I keep reading this thread title as, "Best Friend wants Sex".
    D'oh.

    My best friend is a girl. But we have this silent knowledge of the "girl" rules and we don't break them with eachother. Well, we wouldn't break them with any other girl, for that matter.