Siblings

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Posted : 3/31/2007 11:25:30 PM

Do you have siblings? Yes.

Full? half? Step? Full.

Brothers..Sisters..Both? 1 sister.

How far apart are you? Do you think this aspect affects your relationship? She's 4 years younger than I am. It affected us when we were younger.

Good relationship or bad? It was bad but became good after the birth of my niece.

Are you the favorite, do you feel they are, or is there not one? Neither of us are favored.

Did you feel they were given things from your folks, as far as time or patience or material things, you yourself did not get? I think she was allowed to get away with a lot of things because she was the youngest.

Would you choose them as a friend if you were not related? IOW Do you have things in common?

robably not. We aren't on the same wavelength on a lot of things.

Do you trust them to make decisions about your parents when it comes time or do you feel that's more your duty? Why? I feel it's more my duty because I'm the oldest.

Would you trust them with things or people most dear to you? Kids, spouses, pets? I would trust my sister with my son. She's always been good to him. I would trust her around my boyfriend because they both know that I would crack their skulls open if I found out they tricked off with each other(or in his case, anyone else) and I wouldn't trust her with my pets because she's not an animal person and I don't like the way she acts towards my dogs.

Do you think they view you as a good sibling? Do you think you are a good sibling?
Their view?

Considering that I babysat for her daughter when she was born and I still do, even if she wants to go out at night, I would like to think she thinks of me as a good sibling and I think I'm a good sibling to her. I've done a lot of things to help my sister and even though we may not agree on some things, I still love her.

Xebby

Posted : 4/1/2007 1:32:16 AM

Do you have siblings?
yes

Full? half? Step?
Full

Brothers..Sisters..Both?
1 Sister, 1 Brother

How far apart are you? Do you think this aspect affects your relationship?
Bro-5 years younger, Sis-7 Years younger, They are slowly catching up to my maturity level.

Good relationship or bad?
Good mostly but we have our occasional fights.

Are you the favorite, do you feel they are, or is there not one?
They are both more the favorite than me.

Did you feel they were given things from your folks, as far as time or patience or material things, you yourself did not get?
material things no, I got those but they were given more time a patience than me.

Would you choose them as a friend if you were not related? IOW Do you have things in common?
No, they are so different than me.

Do you trust them to make decisions about your parents when it comes time or do you feel that's more your duty? Why?
They would make a better judgment than I ever could, especially my sister she has the best relationship with my mom.

Would you trust them with things or people most dear to you? Kids, spouses, pets?
People and things-Yes, Pets-NO!

Do you think they view you as a good sibling? Do you think you are a good sibling?
Their view?
I'm the oldest so they seem to look up to me but not really take me seriously.