calliecritturs
Posted : 2/12/2007 6:56:50 PM
I'm from western NY State -- the "second language" of preference that close to Canada is French. I majored in French in high school and took long term baby sitting jobs for a couple of families who were from Paris and Belgium but who were living in the States for a while for their job. True conversational skills in a language are NOTHING like conjugating verbs and class stuff. Any true dialect is always different.
One day I said a phrase RIGHT out of my dialogue in French class. I told them to "Brusse les dents" ('Brush your teeth" ... as in before bed).
They looked at me like I had six heads. HUH?????
The eldest (a sweet child of six at the time) whispered to me "Pas de 'brusse' ... LAVE" -- in other words -- "Don't say BRUSH you dipstick ... WASH your teeth!!" to them a 'brush' was only for brushing your hair! Beglian dialect.
I learned singing a 3 month old child a lullabye in English if French is spoken in that home will scare the tar out of them and make them cry hysterically. Soooooo sing Frere Jacques or some stupid verses of Alouette (which is about a rooster for crying out loud) and the baby quieted right down.
Xebby -- when I went back to college at the age of 31, I decided to take Sign Language so I could interpret in my church. I took "basic sign language" THREE TIMES before I began to 'get it'.
But when you do ... it begins to fall in place. But any time you gotta conjugate verbs, unless you have superior English language skills (like I mean REAL language skills -- like diagramming sentences and knowing a gerund from any other word ending in "ing" or knowing a transitive vs. intransitive verb -- THAT stuff becomes really hard because most of us don't speak our native language THAT well.
Don't be intimidated. Just roll with it and use it .... and it ALL sets you apart from most other people who are just plain satisfied with how little they know and who never try.
You're doing a GOOD thing!! Don't get discouraged. But remember -- some folks are naturally good at "languages". The rest of us just do what we can. but anything we DO learn makes us better than we were yesterday!! You go girl!!