sharismom
Posted : 12/1/2006 3:38:07 PM
I'm a non-practicing Christian and I pretty much dislike the commercialism of Christmas. Why can't we be good to each other all year? Why are many so *caring* between Thanksgiving and Christmas and then don't give a rat's butt any other time of the year? Food drives are predominantly done during the holidays - do these people who don't have much food not eat the other 11 months of the year?
I still handwrite my own Christmas cards and personal letters because this may be the only time we hear from each other. I moved a lot with the military, so friends are scattered. We don't see each other much, but still enjoy the annual updates.
I don't have much family. When my son was little, it was just fun to watch him open presents, even if they were silly things like socks and underwear. I always try to get him one *big* thing that's on his list, which I've done for as long as I can remember. He may not get a lot, but does get things at other times throughout the year.
As a kid, I was always reminded "look how much we spent on you." Thanks.
This is slightly OT, but relates to the article Houndlove posted the link to. I never understood why Christians feel compelled to go to other countries on so-called mission trips and spend time in places trying to convert others to Christianity. I'm not saying it's a bad faith, but what makes Christians so bold as to think that everyone should believe the same as they do? Didn't the Europeans do that to the Native Americans (among other things)? What's so wrong with the religions others practice? If you don't celebrate Christmas like I do, so what?
Anyway, I'm pretty scroogy when it comes to the whole holiday thing. I spent Thanksgiving alone after I volunteered at the Animal Shelter for about 4 hours and it was okay by me. I may do the same on Christmas. I don't care if you wish me Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. If you can't be nice to me on December 26th, then just leave me alone.