spiritdogs
Posted : 11/22/2006 10:34:12 AM
ORIGINAL: rwbeagles
I don't see that it matters *why* someone apologizes
I do see that it matters that the person's apology is GENUINE, and not an agent's attempt to save a career or dodge a bullet. I got no sincerity from his apology...he couldn't even do it face to face with the people he offended!
I'm not sure that we were watching someone who was completely rational afterward. Didn't you think he was a bit, for lack of a better word, frantic? When I saw him on Letterman, I thought I was looking at a mentally ill individual - kinda like the wife abuser suddenly caught with his fist up in the air ready to bring it down on her, but also shocked that he was doing that to someone he loved. I don't think it makes what either person does right, I just think we need to understand that violence and racism are often intertwined with other aspects of a human being that are not sane. He looked like he belonged in a psychiatric care facility, frankly, for his own safety.
Apologies may come later, once the synapses fire properly again. That is also a time when treatment may have an effect.
Funny, no one seems much angered at the continual actions of corporations, government, or individuals that deny people their rights, but when the words that CEO's never say, just think, come out of someone's mouth, we jump all over that. Think about it - almost half the native population living on reservations in the US are doing so in poverty - and *we* are the
illegal aliens, living the American dream while they can't heat their hogans.
When my dad was young, he graduated at the top of his class as a CPA from a prestigious institution, but none of Boston's best banks would hire the son of Lithuanian immigrants - any more than they hired the Irish when they first came. Humans have a distasteful way of creating "us" and "them". We even do it within our own families. So, racism is really nothing more than "us" versus "them" in a particularly ugly form. It isn't right, and we shouldn't tolerate it, but, just as with other sins, we need to allow those who are truly repentant to be forgiven. None of us know this man - and it's too soon to judge. Besides, it really isn't our job - that belongs to the Creator.