JackieG
Posted : 9/18/2013 1:48:32 PM
That's a helpful article, Elizabeth. I've introduced dogs to each other as described and it can be very helpful in reducing any tension. Neutral territory, walking side by side, etc.
Several times I've been in a situation when that method wasn't possible for various reasons. Dogs are so aware of us, and especially dogs we own and live with, that they quickly pick up on any tension or nervousness we feel. Be calm and be neutral. It's natural to feel a little worried that everyone will get along but keep in mind that dogs are extremely social animals and generally will accept a new dog.
If I bring a dog I know little about, straight into the house, with no neutral territory introduction to my resident dogs I just pretend to ignore them all. I'm watching closely but from a distance and I'm not interfering or talking to them. I make sure I've put away any toys and nylabones to prevent any guarding. I put the resident dogs outside and bring the new dog into the house and then let my dogs in, one at a time. I give each dog time to settle down and then put that dog in a crate and bring in the next dog. I then crate the new dog and let the others out.
I've had several dogs, and in fact own one now, who are not super friendly with new dogs. Even she settles down after a bit of posturing and a snarky remark or two. I'm careful not to gush or make a big fuss over the new dog until I'm sure they've all accepted the new normal. :)
When you don't know a dog's background, it's good to keep in mind that the dog may or may not have ever had an opportunity to learn to be social with other dogs or with strange people. Those dogs can take longer to learn to get along but most do learn, as dogs generally want to be a part of the family.
Dogs want to do what works because that's a survival skill for a dog. We sometimes think dogs want to please us and if they do things that are obviously not pleasing to us we feel hurt or that we've got a stubborn or problem dog. Not true but I digress because I get carried away when talking about dogs. :)
Of course if there is real aggression you should consult a behaviorist for an in home consultation.
I forgot to say welcome earlier. Welcome and I too hope you share how things go. Also thanks for considering a senior dog. :)