Help with finding a dog

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    Help with finding a dog

    Not for me lol!  Having Ari is like having two dogs in one :)  The dog is for my Mom.  She's finally ready to welcome another dog into her home.  She lost her Shih Tzu, Nikki, awhile back ago and took it hard.  She was truly my Mom's baby with a lot of sweet 'tude.  She's looking to adopt, so purebred isn't a requirement but I'm looking to get a feel for some breeds/mixes.  Her requirements are:

    Generally friendly with all (naturally this is an individual thing and a socialization thing, but breeds more prone toward accepting of people).  She takes her dogs just about EVERYWHERE with her.

    Small breed (my mom lives in a small trailer so a dog that isn't likely to be more than 25 lbs or thereabouts) - also why I'm asking since my familiarity with breeds tends to the larger ones!  Personally I think she is overly limiting herself, but it's what she's comfortable with. 

    Breeds that like activity (Mom loves to get out for walks and will do so often with her next dog)  Exercise concerns do not apply here, she's also good with training and toy stimulation (the dog will be spoiled for toys lol)

    Preferably not high maintenance for grooming (I love my Mom but she isn't good about properly brushing and grooming a dog; regular vet visits yes, groomers not so much, she relied on me for grooming but I'm simply too far away) I could teach her better, so it's not to rule out another shih tzu or similar dog needing lots of grooming maintenance.

    Breeds that tend toward being affectionate rather than standoffish. 

    If my Mom had the space I know the breeds she'd go for would be Shepherds (she has owned them in the past and were the go to family dog when she was a kid.  Her heart dog was a Shepherd/husky mix), and likely Labs or Goldens. 

    Thoughts?

     

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    Beagle might be a good breed for her.  I would go through a rescue as most available rescued dogs are in foster homes and the foster home can generally give a better assessment of temperment and other important info that a shelter may not know. 
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    JackieG
    Beagle might be a good breed for her.

     

    Agree, although my beagle is more than 25 lbs.Embarrassed

     

    Deb W.

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     With the exception of the grooming, you pretty well described a cavalier. They're not horrible grooming wise, Luke needs a brushing every day or every other day. I keep on top of that, and he has never been to a groomer. I hate it, but plenty of people cut their hair down to avoid it.

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    Just a thot for you -- aside from the fact your mom lives in a manufactured home, you need to be mindful of how much she can physically handle.

    We are limited at this point to dogs not more than 30 pounds because it's all *I* can LIFT.  Meaning -- not necessarily now, but in 5+ years what if the dog hurts its back, or is too weak and has to be *carried* into the vet. 

    David and I made the decision long ago that we would never want a dog's care to suffer because David wasn't home to bring the dog to the vet **now** and it was left to me.  So we have to keep the size to something I can physically handle and get down the ramp out back or the 4 large steps otherwise.

    Also -- how about shedding and coat?  If your Mom is used to a shih tzu -- which doesn't shed much, she may want something with less grooming but make sure she considers coat.  I'd love to suggest a pug (cos they can be funny as heck) but they shed worse than any dog I've ever had in my life.

    If you want something in writing to go over with her -- the ASPCA Complete Guide to Dogs has, in the back of each AKC "division" section pictures of mixes -- like what would a bassett/beagle mix look like?  Basically so you can go to a rescue and have some clue what that mix really might be.

     Also -- there are one page descriptions of each breed which can be truly helpful.  It gives you a heads up on temperament, as well as breed-related health issues.

    But I gotta give a HUGE second to what Jackie says about adopting from a rescue.  For someone who isn't prepared to deal with a dog with "issues" going thru a rescue can be a better option because the dog will have been with a family who should be able to give you some decent information.

    Get her to think out loud to you what she really wants, and couple that with the weather where she lives.  If someone loved to walk a LOT in Florida, again I wouldn't tell them a pug because they get too over-heated WAY too fast. 

    On the other paw, I will likely never volunteer to take a hound of any sort in the future.  I love Luna dearly, but the constant vocalizing makes me insane.  You never have to wonder how she feels on any particular subject cos she's GONNA tell you -- long and in great detail (oh the whining, and the constant "commenting" on every single thing in her life??? sheesh!!)

    If I could clone Charlie I could honestly about offer him as one of the most perfect dogs I've ever loved. 

    But despite the heat sensitivity, I can imagine there will be another pug in our future someday.  Zillions of them in rescue and each one is a character. 

    Hopefully this will be fun for your Mom. 

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    I thought about Cavaliers as they do fit the description very well.  I am always reluctant to recommend a breed with serious health problems in their genetic background which is why I didn't say Cavalier but everyone has to make their own decisions on that kind of thing.  I owned Labs for years and finally said no more because of the many health problems in the breed.
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     One of the coolest small dogs I know is a welsh terrier - he's 19-20lbs. Extremely good-nature, quiet, loves to be out and about, athletic (yet not crazy, as his owners are NOT active), very low grooming needs - I think he gets shaved may be 3-4x a year but I am clueless.  He's a fun dog.

    I agree that they'll be many available dogs in rescue and if she goes with a non-pup she'll know exactly what the temperament is.

    I think an adult beagle/mix, may be whippet mix

    That's about all I know of smaller dogs :)

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    calliecritturs

    On the other paw, I will likely never volunteer to take a hound of any sort in the future.  I love Luna dearly, but the constant vocalizing makes me insane.  You never have to wonder how she feels on any particular subject cos she's GONNA tell you -- long and in great detail (oh the whining, and the constant "commenting" on every single thing in her life??? sheesh!!)

    I think this differs from dog to dog.  Jamison hardly ever barks - usually only when there is some type of critter in the yard or one of neighborhood cats is out walking around on the street.

     

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    iluvjamison
    I think this differs from dog to dog

     

    Totally agree - AND I generally find males to be quieter than females 

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    calliecritturs

    On the other paw, I will likely never volunteer to take a hound of any sort in the future.  I love Luna dearly, but the constant vocalizing makes me insane.  You never have to wonder how she feels on any particular subject cos she's GONNA tell you -- long and in great detail (oh the whining, and the constant "commenting" on every single thing in her life??? sheesh!!)

    I think this differs from dog to dog.  Jamison hardly ever barks - usually only when there is some type of critter in the yard or one of neighborhood cats is out walking around on the street.

     

    Deb W.

    If it were just barking it would be easy -- no, she "talks" CONSTANTLY.  She whines, she moans, she 'comments' and heaven help you if she's at all agitated.  When she's playing, hears anything, smells anything -- it is absolutely constant.  She rarely barks -- she's too busy discussing everything to do that!! 

    But then I've had many, many comments from vets and others "Oh yeah, some hounds are just really vocal."  yeah -- that ...

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    kpwlee
    I generally find males to be quieter than females  

    You mean, even in Dogdom, they've learn to keep their opinions to themselves?  Ha ha haaaa

     I was thinking a Border Terrier may suit.

     

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    kpwlee
    I generally find males to be quieter than females  

    You mean, even in Dogdom, they've learn to keep their opinions to themselves?  Ha ha haaaa

    hahahaha I was waiting for someone to comment on that!

    In all seriousness, I don't know of a noisy male dog in our community. I suppose one tightly wound BC mix can bark, but in general mouthiness its the females. I just did a quick count, 7 of Bugsy's 'girl' friends bark and make noise regularly. None of his male friends do although the young golden will voice his discontent with not getting his way with his humans at times Wink

     

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    Hahahahaha!  I'm laughing because if anyone thinks males bark less they are barking up the wrong tree. Big Smile Barking isn't gender related in my experience.  It has much more to do with breed, environment and training and most of all the individual dog. 
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    LOL, you guys are too much :)

    My Mom can handle my dog, who is 60 lbs of crazy lol - so no worries there.  She's just doesn't want to be tripping over the dog in a small space.  

    I'm definitely going to suggest the rescue route, particularly if they can provide a lot of detail on personality and behavior.  She could handle minor behavioral issues, but I know she wouldn't want to handle anything more serious.

    A breed or a mix that needs a lot of grooming, I wouldn't automatically rule out - particularly if it's a good match in all other areas.  

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    my mom, in her mid 70's, has a chinese crested powderpuff and a maltese. both are great small dogs. very personable and non-shedding. they do need to go for a haircut every other month or so, but generally low maintainance. they are incredibly popular wherever they go and have helped mom make new friends everywhere.