mrstjohnson
Posted : 8/22/2012 9:14:56 AM
I feel for parents with kid eating issues - probably because I am one Riley has them. And before all of you judge and tell me what I did wrong,
1. Riley always ate what we ate
2. I never bought baby food - I just mashed up what we were having for dinner and she loved it
3. I cook dinner 6 nights a week every week. I make a protein, veggie, high fiber carb and salad
4. Snacks in our house consistent of fruit, pretzels, and goldfish crackers. Snacks are at a set time a few hours before dinner.
One thing I learned as a parent, never judge what other parents do to make it through the day so they don't loose their mind. Those people that turn their nose up at you at the store, restaurant where ever aren't home with your child everyday in and out. Doesn't mean your kid can run wild, but I think people either forget what it is like to have little ones and be awake 20 hours a day trying to make it all work or 2 have never had kids so its easy to judge.
Riley's eating issues started about 2 1/2 and just now we are able to get her to eat something other than ravioli, chicken, and bread. She does eat a ton of berries, pears, apples, and other fruit. She eats natural yogurt for breakfast with granola and berries. She WILL NOT TOUCH A VEGETABLE at all with the exception of raw mushrooms - go figure.
Sorry if it sounds like I have my back up, but this topic gives me a rise. Even when you do everything right they do have a mind of their own. They like what they like and I think what people don't understand is that kids' taste buds are different than ours. They experience textures differently than we do. I will not force or starve my kid so I can proclaim - they eat everything I put in front of them. I have distinct memories of gagging over meals when I was little, just to get the food down. Nope, not going to do that.