mrstjohnson
Posted : 8/9/2012 6:28:22 PM
URGHHH, I opened up a huge can of worms with my one sister tonight. Long story, but her and her husband in their desire to have their girls succeed in school push them harder than you could ever imagine. Seriously, they are grounded 1 day for every point they miss on a test (i.e. if they get a 99% they are grounded for 1 day, etc.). My sister says it's all him but she doesn't do anything about it. Basically, my oldest niece was grounded her entire sophmore year because of this. They are in advanced advanced classes and take college classes in the summer.
My sister called tonight to again complain about how my BIL was ragging on the girls about something and I cut her off saying, if you are that upset about it then leave. I wish you would and then the mental abuse to your girls will end. I am sick of you saying, " I know, I know". Either get those girls into therapy or I will, etc. etc. I basically ended the conversation with, if he doesn't lighten up or you don't do something about I am going to call protective services and put a stop to it. Well, that didn't go over well.
In all honesty, I am scared for my oldest niece. She doesn't participate in any non-school activities and is constantly a stress ball. My goodness, she's 16 and has 1000% more pressure on her that I do. She spends a lot of her time at our house on the weekend "babysitting" just to get her out of her house. I am tired of my lazy sister's attitude and I swear I will do something if something in that house doesn't change.