Sad, chauvanist story.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Sad, chauvanist story.

    This kind-of goes along with the "If you can't afford a dog don't get it" post.

    I used to work at a pet supplies store while I was in college.  There are alot of horror stories from there, this is one of them.

    A woman and her older grumpy husband came in.  They asked me about their itchy, rashy dog and what shampoo would help.  I recommended a shampoo and then asked them when and where the dog itched.  The dog itched all year long, so I suggested it might be a food allergy and asked them what food they were feeding their dog. "Ol'Roy."  I suggested that Ol' Roy could definatly be causing the problem and suggested up grading to Diamond Lamb and Rice $22.99 a 40lb bag (not the best but better than Ol' Roy and still inexpensive).  The woman was all for it, but her grumpy husband had this spiteful grin on his face and just said "No," and told there that "we are leaving."  The woman turned red and followed him.

    A few months later the woman came in.  She convinced her husband that they should take the dog to the vet and the vet said to switch food.  I again showed her the Diamond.  She bought it and left.  The next day, she returned it.  Her husband said "we're not spending that much on a dog."  You could tell she had been crying.  She asked if we had anything less expensive that would help.  I explained that Diamond is the the least expensive "allergy" food, but that it may help to simply switch to something simply better than Ol'Roy, like Purina Dog Chow.  I also explained that Diamond will turn out less expensive in the log run because it contains less fillers and she won't have to feed as much.  She bought a bag of Dog Chow.

    A few months later, the woman and her husband came in because the Dog Chow didn't work.  I tried to talk them back into Diamond Lamb and Rice.  It was so sad the woman kept pleading with husband, like a child does with their father.  She walked away crying!

    I don't know for sure, but I'm afraid that the husband decided to put the dog to sleep. 

    I understand that not everyone is rich, but to the woman that dog was a child.  To him it was just a dog and he had no respect for his wife and her feelings.


    • Gold Top Dog
    That is sad. [:(] She should've started feeding the husband Ol' Roy and see how HE felt! [:@]
    • Gold Top Dog
    The HAPPY ending to that story is the woman comes in later WITH the dog (so significant that they didn't have it *with* them) but .. um ... withOUT the husband.
     
    Because she divorced the idiot, KEPT the dog (and the house - that's what *I* did) and is happier all the way around.  She and the dog may had had to eat instant mashed potatos for a while (in which case she may have found the dog DID have food allergies on a make-do elmination diet) but she's happier! 

    Now unfortunately, she may have moved away in the process of this and you'll never know -- but it's a happier ending to cling to anyway.  Been there DONE it!!!  Dogs and I both survived very well!!!
    • Puppy
    What you just described is an abused woman!
    • Gold Top Dog
    I agree.  
    • Gold Top Dog
    Poor woman and poor dog.
     
    That wouldn't fly in this house...husband would be in the doghouse (pun intended) and eating Ol' Roy for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
     
     
    • Gold Top Dog
    I agree that that is an abusive relationship.

    I would have bought the food anyway.... I always bring things home that aren't *preapproved*, and he always realizes that Im right....[:)][:D][;)]
    • Gold Top Dog
    I agree, it sounds like it was an abusive relationship.
     
    IMO, if someone can't see how their decisions are effecting the person they "love" they don't deserve that love. I would have divorced a man like that in a heartbeat as well.
    • Gold Top Dog
    That guy would not have lasted in my house for five minutes! His A..........would have been grass. pardon the French. [;)]
    • Gold Top Dog

    ORIGINAL: cubbyrescue

    What you just described is an abused woman!


    I agree 100%.
    • Gold Top Dog
    I'm the one that buys their food and feeds the dogs, lucky them. [:)]  If Kenny was left to care for them... they'd probably be eating left over hamburger helper. [:'(] 
     
    I feel for the lady.
    • Gold Top Dog
    that story gives me a sick feeling. how awful.