Thanks all :)
For the most part it went well. We both agree there were things we'd work on, but for the most part it was a combination of crappy schedules and just out and out not thinking. Which I much prefer to intended exclusion. Also found out where the cold shoulder from my step-mom is coming from and I *may* be able to do a little bridge mending. And I was this >< close to getting through it w/o any tears :) Really appreciated everyone's good thoughts, it kind of made it like I wasn't going in alone, and that helped some :)