CoBuHe
Posted : 7/1/2011 11:11:32 AM
Wow, just wow. Sister#2 and I just had a talk. She wanted to talk about "relationships." That's how she prefaced it in an email.
Turns out that the bottom line is she wants to have visibility to Mom's bank accounts, now that the house sale proceeds have been deposited.
WTH!! I've been taking care of my Mom for years (not her, not Sis#1). Me. I've been managing her finances for 4 years now. And, all of a sudden, now that there is a mildly substantial deposit, she wants (as pressured by her husband and colleages) to have access to the accounts.
I am utterly offended by this. My first thought is "Cook You," both of you. I've been managing just fine for years, without your input.
After having thought about it...fine...maybe I should give her visibility. I have nothing to hide. Mom's money is for Mom.
But, Wow...remove the dagger from my heart, that this is even brought up. Bottom line is trust.
I need the 2x4 and a seat at the Tiki bar.