My cousin recently bought a Golden Retriever, male, puppy. She lives with her boyfriend, 8 year old son and 4 year old daughter. While they are my family and I love them all very much, I am very concerned about the puppy.
My cousin's boyfriend is one of those people who believes in things like rubbing the puppies nose in his mess so that he learns not to mess in the house. He pins the puppy down and smacks it when it doesn't listen. I don't know where the puppy sleeps, but I do know that they don't leave the puppy at home while they are work because of their neighbors. So instead, my cousin's boyfriend will take the puppy with him to work and leave him in his truck all day.
The kids love the puppy, but I have witnessed them kicking it and hitting it. The puppy is also very skinny. Not deathly skinny, but definitely to where you can notice that he needs to be eating more. You can feel his ribs when you pick him up. When they brought the puppy over recently, I fed it and it swallowed it's food so fast that it threw up afterwards.
Her boyfriend is a huge animal lover and more so, a dog lover. I think he was just raised to think that this is how you raise a puppy. I have an aunt, who like myself, is very concerned about the puppy. I've mentioned it to my mom and asked her if I should say something to my cousin. She said no because they would only get offended and my cousin would just yell at me in her own defense. I've even considered calling Animal Protection Services, but once again, my mom said no. She said it wasn't any of our business.
I guess it just bothers me more than some other people because I have Ash and I can't ever imagine kicking her, hitting her, not feeding her enough, leaving her in a car all day long, rubbing her nose in her mess. Plus, my cousin and her boyfriend aren't doing very well and we know that drugs and alcohol are in that household all the time. Don't get me wrong. I'm very concerned about my cousin's drug and alochol problems and even more concerned with the children, but this is an animal forum so that's why I'm talking about my concern for the dog. My cousin's daughter told us, in the innocent way that children do, that the dog drinks beer. I mean, things are so bad right now that my mother has taken the kids for the next few weeks so that we can all make sure that the kids are o.k.
Should I say anything to my cousin about the dog? Should I keep my mouth shut? I'd even take the dog myself. I don't know. I guess I just wanted to vent.