About 10 days ago, Ben had a rather unfortunate experience with an incredibly excitable Dane and it made him terrified of other dogs, especially unfortunate since Ben had been very interested in the Dane at first and it was his first trip to the park. The Dane wasn't at all aggressive, just bouncy, but was obviously massive next to Ben. We have met many other dogs since then, and been to 2 puppy classes, but he was very shy with all of them and would not play at all, just hid behind my legs.
Well today, we met a pit bull. Before getting too close, we asked his owner if his dog was OK with puppies, and he said his pit was very safe. Ben went RIGHT up to him, had a good sniff and proceeded to properly PLAY....for the first time since he got frightened. It was a chore to get him away when we had to leave, and this dog could not have been more patient with Ben. Other than a few air snaps to put Ben in his place (and Ben deserved it, he was up on his hind legs with his front paws on the pit's face) he was beyond gentle with Ben, and Ben had an absolute blast running around with him. I was almost in tears of relief watching Ben really playing and enjoying himself with another dog.
It is worth noting that the owner was obviously loving and gentle, and he had found his dog as a stray when he was a little puppy, so he doesn't even have any idea how he was bred or raised when he was very young. (The dog is now 2 1/2.)
I don't want to start a debate on pits - there are enough of those. I just wanted to share the experience of seeing a beautiful adult male pit today who put up with my little puppy bouncing all over him and chasing him around. I truly believe that dogs can sense things we can't - and Ben KNEW this dog was safe for him to play with....and this dog KNEW to be gentle with Ben.
To all pittie lovers out there, I met a wonderful ambassador for your breed today, and I will honestly sleep better tonight having seen my dog play so naturally with another at the park for the first time.
Kate