Kim_MacMillan
Posted : 2/25/2011 8:23:28 PM
Sera_J
Sounds stupid, but this is a real revelation to me. I mean I've always enjoyed training my dogs, but the training was just a means to an end, to the title, the proof what you were doing was "right". I'm sure I'm fairly typical as I'm a competitive minded person.... but, this is so much more zen and enjoyable. It's inspired me to get out and train right now, in fact!! (not even Agility, I'm gonna go work some tracking!) What an "ah-hah!" moment, thanks!!
You sound to me like the majority of people who enter dog sports. While most of them do enjoy the training process, it's often for the ribbon, the title, or the reputation because it doesn't cost money to "train" your dog, but it costs a lot of money to compete! So to shell out a ton of money, you wouldn't keep doing it if you lost. LOL.
I lean closer towards how Sylvia trains, in the sense that the training is the journey. It's why I don't compete in a ton of trials each year (maybe three weekends of Rally and four weekends of agility), but I'm always training, always trying to help my dogs be better, to be a better handler, to work closely with my dog, and I spend more time going to seminars and training with others than I do actually competing. I am proud of our titles, and I do hang up our ribbons, but not for the same reasons necessarily. I look at them as a gauge of our success and our working relationship, and for Shimmer how far she's come from the sensitive/shy girl that she was. Not because she beat others, but because she surpassed my expectations and has pushed through her own anxieties.
My most proud moment of all in training for competition actually comes from Gaci, who has no titles whatsoever. We have been working so long with her behaviour issues, and her stress (she is so high-stress!), that at the end of last year when she ran one full weekend of trials and was happy and ran with vigor the entire weekend, was the best weekend I've had yet. It wasn't Shimmer's titles, it wasn't her agility Q - they were sort of *expected* eventually - it was the fact that that weekend Gaci and I were a true team, and she was thrilled to be out there on that field. She ran into, and ran out of, the ring in the same way. She didn't Q that weekend - she knocked a bar in each run, because she was going so fast for her normal run, but it was the best weekend I've seen yet. And her 1st place (non-Q) ribbon hangs right next to Shimmer's title-earning ribbons.
I think everyone benefits from taking the time to really reflect on the process. It makes you feel good.
But most of all I love, love, love Sylvia's video on Youtube of her Clean-Up Crew!