calliecritturs
Posted : 1/30/2011 7:38:45 PM
I also wanted to say -- for mehpenn and all others. "statistics" are scarey things because they can be so hugely invalid.
Any time you have a breed that has become "popular" in an area -- particularly when it portrays a certain "tough guy" sort of personna -- you wind up with people owning dogs who don't have enough of a brain TO own a dog. And in Anne's comment above about adolescents with testicles? Yeah -- except the problem often is that the "adolescent" is more simply adolescent in BRAIN than physical size.
Statistics never take the wide range of reality into account.
I remember a situation here a few years ago where an owner kept a pit ON A CHAIN and they lived next door to an elementary school.
Yeah -- EVENTUALLY the pit happened to be loose and on it's way "into the house" (not leashed -- an untrained animal supposedly "following" the owner?? Yeah right) and it broke loose, ran into the schoolyard and badly mauled a boy.
The fact that it was a pit was completely beside the point because that dog had been SO abused (the stories went on an on about how kids stopped at the fence every day to taunt the dog) that it's no wonder .... the incident happened at 3:15 **when school let out** so the yard was FULL of hundreds of kids AND ADULTS alll running and screaming in terror. It was the one little boy who tripped and fell who got mauled.
ALL the kids ran. ALL the adults ran.
One would have thought that SOMEONE might have been bright enough to have seen this coming??? That they might have had some instruction for the kids not to 'run' but rather to FREEZE like a tree if a strange dog came at you? Or shoot -- maybe even post an adult or two near that property to prevent kids from plaguing the dog???
Any time something happens -- whether it's something like a dog bite or a shooting or a national calamity - unfortunately everyone is so interested in the graphic news that sensibility takes a back seat.
mehpenn -- my heart breaks for you. Yeah, I have dogs who are particularly long lived -- but you don't just "raise a horse for 17 years" -- you expect them to live to be 30 -40 years old. That's older than a lot of humans. But they require a LOT of care. And they are extremely intelligent animals capable of a deep deep bond with their humans. This is and was tragic for you.
But don't waste your mental strength on feeding your emotions. It's not going to help, and it could turn you in a wrong direction. If you have "never had this happen" with other dogs -- then honestly? You're lucky.
I said above -- I'm from farm stock. My Dad's people had tons of dogs -- most of them not very nice animals. They lived outside and when one got hit by a car or a tractor you shrug and get another pup somewhere.
That's not my way.
Your communication with your neighbors is appropriate -- and I'm sure it hurts to have a friendship damaged as well. But it's going to take a LONG time for this to heal. But hopefully they will step up and deal properly. And compensate you.
I will be lifting you up -- this is gonna be a long time healing. And the emotional injuries of this horse will be even longer to heal.