Cita
Posted : 12/13/2010 9:56:59 AM
Um... why wouldn't you be mad at the dog? :-p Sure, it's our own fault, etc. etc., but I really don't think that's a natural reaction. Our gut reaction is "ARRGH stupid dog stop doing bad things!!" and THEN we sit down and say, "No, self, don't be angry at the dog, it's your own durned fault." It's not the being mad that's even a question, but rather what you do with it.
I've had a lot of success with my dogs just not allowing them by the door. When I was younger, our dog was not allowed in the living room (the room that led to the front door) or the laundry room (the room that led to the garage). Depending on your house setup, that might not be an option, but is still something to think about. With Rascal, he is not allowed anywhere near the door, ever, unless he is on leash. He learned that boundary very well. As a result, he only very, very rarely even attempts to make a run for the door, and if he does, it's usually because of crazy circumstances (like a cat walks by the open door).
I think some boundary training (maybe in addition to the things other people have mentioned, like a long line) might really help you guys with this.