tacran
Posted : 6/19/2006 1:50:12 PM
Renee, you just might have to adopt the lifestyle that we did: we simply don't have any guests in our house who aren't dog lovers. Obviously, this is hard to do when it involves immediate family members (luckily all ours are pet lovers). But after a couple years of stressing through dinner gatherings with people who were either uncomfortable with or flat-out afraid of Tonka, we said ENOUGH. We didn't enjoy the gathering if we had to spend the whole time keeping him away from certain guests, or feeling bad that he's confined to his crate, in another room, etc. It's our house, and our house involves dog hair, dog slobber, etc.(or it did when Tonka was still alive). People who can't tolerate that in exchange for a fun gathering (including awesome food, as my husband is an amazing cook), then they can socialize with someone else!
As for people who don't offer to help, that's another topic. Generally speaking, I prefer to deal with the kitchen stuff alone (too many cooks spoil the stew). But, I appreciate the OFFER to help, even if I decline it. There are good guests and bad guests, and it sounds like your SIL is towards the not-so-good side!