calliecritturs
Posted : 8/29/2010 11:35:23 PM
It's actually after midnight here but will post anyway -- I am majorly thankful that this "visit" with my parents went MUCH better than I feared. None of the barely leashed violence that I saw in Mom when we were here last -- she was on her 'best behavior' but I'm really not sure where to credit the change -- it may simply be that because Pa's health has declined *and* her vision is now at the legally blind stage they've had to come to terms a bit with their situation rather than battling every inch of their age.
It took us all 4 days but we've gotten Pa's computer up and running and all his peripherals running ok with Windows 7. We wanted to be sure he had "legal" versions of everything (it's hard for someone 86 to really "get" why software has to go with the computer and why you can't just "move it over" onto the new computer. So there was training involved (which isn't easy at his age).
But I'm darned proud of him-- to venture into the computer age at 83 was NOT easy and entering into a whole new operating system, and new programs at 86 is a HUGE stretch but he tries SO hard to catch on. We got "go to my PC" installed so I can help him from home. (for anyone trying to keep their 80-odd year old parent's computer "together" from 2000 miles away it rocks!!)
Mom's dealing *better* with her sight loss -- I am truly proud of her. She's NOT a gadget person and never has been, but she's got an electronic magnifier that allows her to watch some TV and do *some* reading (it magnifies things like grocery ads to inch+ high letters so she can read them on a TV screen right in front of her).
Now for me? I'd be majorly into the gadgets and that's never *ever* been Mom's thing. for her to have come this far is major, and I think it's part of what's helped settle her personality back down. Last time we left I was terrified she was gonna do something really ... horrible and this time I feel way better. They play it close -- they allow no interference at all. They are not the type of people to want me to come home and "take care of them".
In honesty I feel like a 250 pound weight has been lifted off me ... I can't wait to get home tomorrow and see my pups (and sleep in my water bed .....*sigh*)
We leave at 7 so I willl post when I get home. (I'm techy in some ways but I don't text *grin* That's Davey's domain LOL)