tacran
Posted : 6/26/2006 2:15:11 AM
Thank you, Xerxes. He was very special. To us, he was the world, but he touched so many people during his life, especially children -- even those who were afraid of dogs would find something calming in his face and muster up the courage to pat him. The pleasure on such a child's face afterwards was a true delight!
Another favorite moment just came to mind - Halloween was always fun, because of the reactions we'd see from kids when I'd open the door with Tonka by my side. He seemed so big and imposing, but was intent on seeing all these odd characters at the door. Some kids would back away and hold their candy bags WAAAYYY out in front of them, others would recognize him from the neighborhood and give him a scratch.
One year, after a group of kids left the porch, I saw a lady encouraging a tiny boy dressed as a bumble-bee to walk to the door. He was no more than 3 years old. He took a couple steps and spotted Tonka, and froze. He sloooowly put down his plastic pumpkin, never taking his eyes off Tonka, who was equally riveted. I thought, "Oh no, here come tears, running away, or Mom grabbing him up and leaving." But the boy walked slowly up the porch, with arms outstretched, put his hands on each side of Tonka's massive head, and gently kissed him on the nose. The gentleness in the little boy's hands was so amazing - like a healer's hands. This all occurred without anyone making a sound - I was astounded the mother didn't stop him, yet we all seemed to be taken in by this weird connection they had. Tonka just snuffled that boy's face for several minutes, and the boy kept holding his head while they held each other's gaze. The mom finally had to come get him and lead him back down the steps. He had NO interest in the candy, and he kept looking back at Tonka, giving a little wave. He never uttered a sound, but the mother said, "He loves dogs." There was something special about that little boy - I don't know if he couldn't speak, or if he just chose not to, but even Tonka's usual calm demeanor seemed even more so during their visit. We didn't recognize the boy from our neighborhood, and never saw him other than Halloween. But we were really affected by their interaction.