glenmar
Posted : 5/28/2010 8:47:19 AM
Morning all! Hope everyone has a GREAT Friday.
I'm hopeful that we will have an offer today. Nothing concrete, just woke up feeling really positive today. That in itself is not an easy task.....DH goes incredibly quickly into gloomy gus mode.
The gig in NM that suddenly dried up, and I'm sure due to his age, really did a major setback in his positive attitude. He really wanted that gig, altho I'm not really sure why because it's a format he's not crazy about, and well, it was NM where it's hot and you have to shake out your shoes before you can put them on! The interest that came earlier this week with the ensueing nibble yesterday he's not as excited about as NM. I don't want to push it, but this is a location I would prefer. Certainly not either of our ideal locations, but what is these days??? Radio is a cruel mistress, but she's under his skin, in his blood, and she's all he's ever had, so.........and with so many broadcast jobs lost in the last year, it's not like we can be all that particular. It's a good solid job with fair pay, not that there has been an offer at this point, but I really need to work to change his attitude without pushing that specific nibble.
I've been praying really hard about our situation and I don't believe we would be sent a bad choice at this point. But, how do I get him to accept that maybe this IS our answer, without pushing the specific nibble and location? He's ready to take any offer he gets, but, I want him not to just grab, but to embrace if that makes any sense?
Why can't men speak the same language we do??????? Frustrating!!
So, it seems that todays task is lifting HIM up and encouraging him to be open to the possibilities. I would gladly accept any support from you guys!
Very much looking forward to the forecast rain for this weekend. Hopefully it will give us a bit of a cool off. Although, despite the heat the last couple of days, we've had a good breeze that makes it a bit more tolerable. Still, an all day rain would be delightful!
Have a great day everyone, and for those of you who won't be on this weekend, a wonderful LONG one!!