Cita
Posted : 5/17/2010 9:30:47 AM
I haven't been posting much lately - consumed with other things - but I have been reading here and there and sending good thoughts to those who could use a few extra.
I'm currently trying to find a place to live for grad school, and it is TOUGH. Almost everyone lives in campus housing, at least for their first year, and campus housing is plentiful, nice, and super cheap. Only, surprise surprise, no pets allowed. And out of the off-campus options, I would say 2 out of every 3 say "no pets." I'm thinking about buying a place, but every place I've found near campus is way more expensive than I'd like to pay. I'm worried about getting a place too far from campus, because what if I need to run home to let Rascal out to pee? I will have "flexible hours" in grad school, but I don't yet know what that means, or how much I will be able to work from home vs. need to put in time in the office.
So do I consider buying the nicer property (say, with a fenced yard!!!) farther out from campus, and consider it will be a 30 minute commute each way and Rascal will have to be left alone for longer periods of time (which he is NOT used to), or do I try to cram us both in a tiny, super-city apartment where he's going to be tormented by lots of noise (which will then make him bark) and where every pee break will be surrounded by lots of people milling in the streets (which he hates, but could probably get used to eventually), but I get to spend more time with him and come home during lunch, etc.? Arrrrrrgh.
I don't care how responsible you are - having a dog, when you are a young and not-yet-settled person, is HARD.
That aside, BF and I are almost definitely going on a big huge "this is the last time we'll be together for a really long time so we're going to celebrate while we can" trip to Japan!!!! I'm so excited!!!!!
Liesje, sorry about the, erm, "gas leak." Eeek!
Glenda, sending you lots of employment thoughts!!
Tina, sending you lots of good thoughts also.
Meg, if it were me I might try to find a dress in a little more muted color or a "softer" pattern. Of course maybe it's just me, because I tend to not like red anyway. ;) I'm sure nobody will mind no matter what you pick!