I understand, it can be a very frustrating experience if all does not go as planned at the vet's office.
This is what happend to us recently......
Shaq and Marley have been going to the same vet since they were puppies. He was wonderful, and we never had a bad experience. Recently our vet broke his hip, and since he is an older gentleman, decided to sell his vet practice and retire.
This year I made an appt for the dogs at a closer vet clinic. I have been to the clinic before, with our cats, so I assumed everything could be fine. I could not have been more wrong, it was awful.
We showed up a little early for our appt so that I could fill out peperwork for the dogs. DH stayed in the SUV with Shaq and Marley, because we did not know how long this would take. When I was finished with paperwork, I let the receptionist know that the dogs were in the truck, and we would bring them in once the exam room was ready. (In the past I have always just brought the dogs into the waiting room. They are generally well behaved, but sometimes off-leashed dogs approach ours, which stresses me out because I never know how other dogs are going to react to our overly-friendly giants. This year I decided to avoid this by having the dogs wait in the truck until the vet was ready.)
I waited, and waited. Finally almost 30 minutes after our appt was suspossed to be the vet tech said they were ready for us. By this time I was already irritated, but trying to stay calm. I had checked on DH a few times, and he was getting a little annoyed as well.
When I went out to the truck, the waiting room was empty, and the vet tech's last words to me were, "The exam room is clear, you can bring them right in." I brought Marley in first, and *thought* DH was right behind me. When I arrived inside the office was still empty,
but both the receptionist and the vet techs had dissappeared as well. I weighed Marley myself, then found a spot on a bench.Marley sat nicely by my side, as the waiting room started to fill with other people and dogs. Finally DH appeared in the entryway, about the time the receptionist suddenly appeared behind the desk. She told me they had made a mistake, and it would be a few more minutes, before they could exam our dogs. I told her we would be in the entryway, and let us know when they were ready. Then I took Marley into the glassed in entryway, to wait with Shaq and DH. I asked DH what had taken so long outside? He said that as he was walking in a dog had rushed Shaq, and when Shaq turned to greet the other dog, the other dog had bit Shaq. (Apparently the dog was there, to be put down. It was old and sick and cranky. Shaq was not hurt, but it added to the stress of the morning.)
FINALLY the vet tech motioned to us that they were ready. DH and I rushed the dogs thru the waiting room, and into a exam room. (Avoiding the dog who had bit Shaq minutes ago, and lunged at him again as we passed.) Once in the exam room they vet tech closed the door and left us alone inside. We started to calm down, and a few minutes later our vet appeared.
He did not even bother to ask the dogs names, tell us his name, ask us anything about the dogs, or pet the dogs. I have never had a vet before who does not at least pet the dogs. All he said was "Whoa, big dogs." Then went right after Shaq, trying to examine his ears. Shaq would not stay still, and just kept trying to get arom the vet. He even tried to hide under the exam table, and finally the vet backed Shaq into a corner. (Shaq gets his ears examined daily by me. He could care less about it. I blow in his ears, kiss them, massage inside them. Whatever, he could care less.) I finally called Shaq to me, had him sit, and held Shaq's ear for the him. The vet did not even attempt to examine anything else on Shaq.
Next came Marley, who by this time, had backed herself onto my lap. (I was sitting on a chair in the corner.) When the vet approached Marley, she turned her face to the side, and glared at him. I thought 'Oh, oh. This is not good.' She was giving him the I-am-a-great-pyr-back-up-now-if-you-know-whats-good-for-you look. Before I could say anything, he reached for her ears, and Marley did a air snap. I was surprised because she is normally very friendly, and I usually spend most of my energy trying to drag her away from people. (But she does have that pyr personality, so I was not totally shocked.) This is the very first time I have ever even witnessed an air snap. I apoligized to the vet and he started to reach for Marley again, and I said "Wait, I will hold her ears for you." Marley let me hold her ears, but still attempted to snap at the vet a second time. I finally told him to skip her ears.
Then the vet gave Shaq his shots, which was fine. By this time I had moved Marley, and put her in a sit stay in another area of the room. When the vet approached Marley, to give her shots she gave him that look again. The vet just looked terrified, and stood there. I finally offered to give Marley her shots. Amazingly the vet actually agreed to this.
I think he was really afraid of Marley, but he did manage to tell me that I was "really good at giving shots." Gee, thanks. I just paid for two vet exams plus shots. Only one dog was weighed (because I did it myself) the other dog was not weighed. The vet
only looked in Shaq's ears, and gave Shaq's shots. He did not examine Marley. I gave Marley her shots. It was the worst vet visit ever. I will never take my dogs back to that clinic!
I don't completely blame the vet, because the entire morning was so stressful. I did everything I could to arrive on time, isolate my dogs, and monitor their behavior around other patients, but it was still a disaster. I am sure in part the dogs were stressed because DH and I were stressed, and in part the dogs behaved poorly because they sensed the vet was afraid.
Sorry that was such a long post. I guess what I am trying to say, is keep looking. You will find a vet who works better for you. Lots of people have had bad experiences at the vet clinic. It made me feel so much better to read everyone else's posts and realize I am not the only one who has had a bad experience!