calliecritturs
Posted : 3/4/2010 5:01:02 PM
So I'm one of those who has never been able to carry to term ... so I'm completely envious in my own over-the-hill way.
I know you feel ungainly -- but Chuffy -- there is no better state ever than having a child you WANT and seeing all those changes happen day after day.
I would tell you to make a notebook -- jot down all those thots and yet all those feelings of "I CAN NOT WAIT TO SEE THIS CHILD!!!" -- and then one day when little Throckmorten says "I feel like no one EVER cares about ME!!" you can hand him/her that book and say "Darling -- no child was ever as anticipated as you were!!"
Other women diet their lives away -- YOU are "ungainly" with a cause, my lady!! Life grows in you!!!