Who would you leave your dog with?

    • Gold Top Dog

    Who would you leave your dog with?

     This came up when I handed in the 'report' for Jessica's home visit. There was a question on there that said "Would you feel comfortable leaving your personal dogs with them?" "Explain why or why not."

    I wrote N/A there.

    So the lady I handed it in to looked it over and then  asked me that question. I told her, it doesn't apply to me. She then *explained* the question to me further. I explained back.. I'm different and very particular. It does NOT apply to me.

    DD or DS#2 take care of the dogs at home when I'm out. More often DD if I'm out for long. My mom has watched Kali and/or Astra when I've had to be away for long and my kids aren't available. Sandy (who owns Brandon, who is Brianna's littermate) has watched Astra, Brianna and Tina one time when they were younger and needed a sitter. Kali, at that time, was boarded at the vet's and I really wasn't happy with that.

    Rescue lady said.. what if there was an emergency and you had to go, and your family wasn't available, would you be comfortable leaving your dogs with this family. My reply.. then I wouldn't go. She really couldn't wrap her mind around it, and I guess I can understand that...

    TBH, for DD wedding in May, (we'll be gone maybe 12 hours) I'm already figuring.. Astra and Brianna to Sandy's. Kali and Tina can stay home by themselves. I can leave food and water down for them and they won't have a problem. My trainer can watch the new pup since she'll be super dog friendly. DD wants Adonis to be at her wedding, so no worries there.

     I'm pretty sure I'm way outside the norm when it comes to this. (Yes, I was the same way after a while when it came to the kids)

    But am I outside the norm in this crowd? So, how about it? Any of you as particular as I am?  I guess it helps that 'family emergency' people just don't really exist for me at the moment. Mom lives nearby and my kids live with me...

     

    Susan

    • Gold Top Dog

    There are very few people I'm comfortable leaving my dogs with, because of their special needs. This is my order of things:

    1) Leave them at home and let my mother come in and care for them.
    2) Leave them at my mother's and they can board in a basement room.
    3) Leave them at a friend's who owns a boarding kennel, who knows my dogs very well and can handle them without touching them or dealing with them much at all.

    If I had to go beyond number 3, I'd consider not doing what it was that required leaving, or taking them with me. My dogs are my number 1, and with that bargain I've accepted their special needs and the fact that they can't be cared for by just anyone.

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         I have to think you are more "normal" than you think. We have seven dogs, and they usually go with us everywhere, jobs, vacations, day trips. They are either home or with us. On some jobs where both DH and myself are on the road, we carry 4 or 5 of the dogs with us, and a good friend comes over to the house to take care of the others, and the livestock. We like to leave a couple good dogs home just in case the sheep get out. They can repen the stock so much easier than people can!!

        

    • Gold Top Dog

    My Frisby stays with my parents when I'm at work. (We live in the same house--I'm in the upstairs 1/2 and they live downstairs.) If they are not home (rarely), there are 2 people who may come visit Fris to take her out, give her meds, etc.--Frisby's "Aunt Janice" (a neighbor) and my uncle. That's it. Since Frisby was diagnosed with IMHA, we try really hard to make sure she's never left for more than an hour without her humans.

    When my English Spinger Celeigh was alive (and I didn't live where I live now), there was one kennel where I would board her. (We tested several.) Celeigh loved it there. She did not do well with sitters coming to the house for walks or to stay with her; it didn't work at all. She did do well with my parents when we moved back to New England.

    • Gold Top Dog

     Thankfully I have some good dog sitters that I can call when ever I need to. My dogs don't stay with my family members because my family, while they like dogs, can't handle 4 aussies.

    • Gold Top Dog

    My dogs have only ever been watched by family or friends.

    • Gold Top Dog

    My daughter takes care of all the dogs if we are not home.   But if she is unavailable River goes to the pet spa, Brooke to my SIL and Hailie to her grandfathers.

    • Gold Top Dog

     My dogs are boarded when we are out of town and I have two kennels that I would trust to take care of them - both are all inclusive, give meds as requested, exercise the dogs on grass at least 4 times/day, and have no trouble handling Maggie's special needs (no other dogs, give all food in toys, etc.) or my special requests (i.e. Kes only plays with other dogs for up to two hours before a break of an equal amount of time to minimize the risk of overarousal and torn pads).

    If I had someone caring for the pets in my home I'm MUCH more picky and right now it's only my DH or a friend from work who are trusted to care for my animals here, in large part due to the fact that we don't have a fenced yard and I have two escape artists.  If an emergency happened, I would send the pups to the kennels.

    I do also have provisions for the pets if I die (Kes to a friend, Z to DH, Maggie to my parents).

    I think it's important to plan for worst case scenarios when it comes to our pets' care.  I always want to have at least 2 options for care in an emergency.

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    99% of the time all 3 dogs are with us if we're traveling/vacationing, that 1% they're not with us they're at my parents who live right down the street from us.

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    We very seldom ever go anywhere that would cause us to have to find someone to take care of our animals. The last time we actually took a vacation, Bella went with us.  But if need be, Bella goes to my mom's because she loves her dog and they get along famously.  Since we also have 2 cats and a pot belly pig, we usually enlist my sister to come and stay at our house to take care of them as well as Reggie & Jake. 

    If something happened that family wasn't available, we would just have to flat out stay home!  If it was some sort of weather related emergency that required evacuation, we would become one of those people you see on TV because we would refuse to leave.

    • Gold Top Dog
    My answer is: It depends. In my current situation, my mom or sister would come over and let them out 3 times a day and feed them. When we move, I will either find a nice boarding facility where my trio can be kept together in a nice kennel- not the chain link/concrete floor but something a bit nicer, bright, airy. OR Find a pet sitter who would be able to come over 3 times a day. In the case of my inability to care for my dogs and dh couldn't either, then I believe family would probably step up and take a dog or two. Gobie probably would go to the in-laws, and Lexi and Darby likely would go to my sister's or mom's. If not that I have a provision for them to go to smallpaws rescue. Guinea pigs- family would take them.
    • Gold Top Dog

     I am a fairly mobile young person, so I really NEED to have something available in place for doggy caretaking if I have to travel, be away all day, etc. Rascal is also fairly special needs (he is fear-aggressive), so I have to be very particular about where he goes. I need somewhere where people know how to be gentle and non-threatening towards him, yet aren't afraid of him.

    When I moved where I am now, I spent weeks researching daycare/boarding options in the area before finally settling on one I like. I only board him a couple of times a year, if that - he usually goes to live with my BF's mother if I have to leave him - but for me, it's an important safety issue to have a place I know I can comfortably leave him for a while if I have to.

    But, unlike many of you (it sounds like), I don't have an extensive family in the area, so that makes a huge difference!

    I do have one friend I would trust to watch him, but she's not a dog person and has 2 cats at home. She would take care of him in an emergency, but it would be a HUGE imposition, so it's only a very last resort.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I have a neighbor who is quite dog savvy; and if needed I could ask her to watch the dogs....but she travels quite a bit.  The hooligans can be a handful...so the last time we went away, I boarded them...which worked out quite well.  Buddy is an extremely easy keeper, so we had my sister come to the house, take care of Buddy and my mom while we were away.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I think you read too much into the question. I think it meant - if you would not feel comfortable leaving your pet with them- why should they own a dog?

    Casey... Casey is special. There are only a few people that can handle him. So would I feel comfortable leaving him with just anyone? Heck no. BUT - in general-term speaking - if I liked this family enough - would I leave my 'normal' dog with them if needed? I've adopted out a lot of dogs. And for my personal fosters - I DO ask myself, is this a good family for MY dog (as I do think of them as MINE until they go home).

    • Gold Top Dog

     Not that you said.. but I do want to add that I do try and make sure the applicants and the dog are a good match. I've seen where all they need to do is fill out a piece of paper and thats it, the dog is theirs.