Wisdom for us, good thots & prayers for Ms. Kee please

calliecritturs

This is never easy -- and how often have we all tried to help folks asking "when is the RIGHT time??" -- and even when you have all the wise counsel available, and you know your head isn't completely rattled with emotion ... it is STILL )@#($*#@ difficult.

So much truth in that statement. Callie, you're the one who always has the best words of comfort and wisdom and I wish that I could echo back to you what you've been able to say to others, but I'm just not that good. You couldn't ask for a more caring group of friends than you've got right here and although we may not physically be holding you steady tonight, we are beside you tonight and in the days ahead. Hugs to you and David.

 I'm just now reading this, but I'll send some well wishes for a speedy flight to the bridge even at this late hour.  God Speed Kee!  ((((Callie and family))))

 (((Callie))) I'm so sorry!

Hugging you from here Callie, my best to you and David.

 I can't say anything Callie.

so sorry I didnt see this earlier...

Oh Callie this is so horrible! Even though Ive never even met Ms Kee I still feel like I know her... This is never an easy thing to do, even though you know that its her time. My sister had to have her dog Abbey PTS a few weeks ago from tumors and even though it was a horrible decision to have to make, she just knew, because Abbey just was not Abbey anymore. Same with Ms Kee.. Im sure she and the rest of your pack knows that it is her time to go.. Its a horrible choice to have to make, even though you know it has to be done it doesnt make it any easier... Theres always that *what if* in your mind...

Good vibes from me and Bailey that Ms Kee is peaceful and not in any pain

Ms Kee, my weasel boy Jasper is at the bridge and his best pal in the world was a scruffy little dog just like you,  keep a look out for him, he'd love to have a friend like you

Hugs to you guys! Kee, if you see a little brown and white Shih Tzu with a bad underbite at the Bridge chasing squirrels, that's Daisy. She'll show you the best hunting spots!

Callie, you and David and your pack are in our thoughts and prayers. Godspeed, Ms. Kee.

 I'm so sorry Callie for the loss you are going to experience, but also proud to see you handling it with such strength.  All I can say is if they have any gates at the entrance to the bridge they better be prepared and have them already wide open because once her little feet get pointed in the right direction there won't be any stopping her.

Edit- Actually there is a famous quote from Yoda in Star Wars that always reminded me so much of Miss Kee and the wisdom behind how she lived her life.  "Try not.  Do or do not, there is no try."

 Sending Peaceful Trip to the Bridge vibes for Miss Kee.  You've taught us all so much.  Thank You for being Quite the Dog. 

And hugs to you Callie...

Don't worry, Miss Kee.  At the Bridge, there is a gentle man named Michael, as good a doggy daddy as your own, who will guide you where you need to go and explain how things work there.  You will know him because there will be a very wise black and white dog at his side.  That's Miss Dancer.  She will welcome you and take care of you, and make sure that you find all the ones who have been waiting for you.  In probably not too many more days, weeks, or months, a little Yorkshire Terrier, who is very ancient for this side, may cross over to join you.  I feel like you will be friends, since she is very much like you - the way your mom describes your spirit always reminds me of her.  We will be here for your mom, little one, so you rest in peace while you wait for the someday time to come...meanwhile, run free in the greenest, lushest meadows and know that you did a bang up job while you were here.

calliecritturs

Sometimes I just wish we mere humans could SEE them walk across that Bridge so I could wave. 

 Callie, I am so sorry you've going through this but I know, too, the Ms. Kee is both blessed and a blessing in your world. A long time ago, I decided that I could see family members (2 and 4 legged) cross--not directly, but by the beautiful sunsets that always follow their passing (though my grandmother had a sunrise--made sense--she was an early morning person!). It was the wave from everyone to let me know all is well. Ms. Kee--Celeigh, Holly, Muffin, Moose, and Nixxi are all there for you. Sending love and prayers your way.

Just to let you know you are still in our thots and prayers, and the candle continues to burn to help guide Kee on her way to the Bridge.

((((hugs))))

Wow. What an amazing post. ((((hugs))))

Callie, I want you to know I have learned so much from you. I did things I thought I'd never do because of your words of wisdom which have enriched my life for the better. I've grown. I got married because you inspired me to get the hell out of my Mom's shadow and just do it because it's what I want! I put off my wedding for 2 years, talked to you one night, and was married about a month or so later. I am extremely happy and I hope you know you had a huge part in it. I have so much respect for you and David and everything you both do. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Kee made her crossing -- it was peaceful (everything all of you hoped and prayed and thot for - THANK YOU!)

It took the tech forever to put the catheter in because her veins were so fragile she popped more than one (which that alone tells you how close she was).   Gave her ACE as a relaxant (and even thru all the problems getting the vein she was calm). 

I typically am not a fan of our e-vet -- but they truly did themselves proud tonight.  They were kind, they didn't rush it, and she was wonderful during the whole thing with us.  She waited until we were sure the ACE had fully kicked in before she put the pink stuff in -- but Ms. Kee took her sweet time -- it was actually a long long time before it all stopped.

 We brought her home -- Tink was *so* beside herself I just didn't want Kee to come up "missing".

Billy was not interested - he knew, he "got it" and he didn't need a close sniff to know kee wasn't "in there" any more. 

Luna had to have a very close sniff -- I'm surprised, but it's possible she's never encountered death before.  Billy went with me when I took Foxy up -- and Luna wasn't that close to the Fox so I didn't bring him home.  Soooo -- gave her all the time she wanted, but I was surprised she was so interested.

Tink -- took her a couple of minutes before she'd even approach.  But then -- she had to think long and hard about this.  Sucky Pony came to the rescue - he's always her port in any emotional storm.  But it's gonna be tough without Grammy Dog.

Now -- I know there was quite the crowd to meet her.  It was the right time -- it was abundantly clear. 

But -- whoever the angels are in charge of the grass at the foot of the Bridge -- I'm sure they're glad the grass will get to grow again, cos I'm sure a MOstlie Sheltie wore a path these past few days. 

But "Darby and Joan" (apparently the British equivalent of Gladys & Tyrone from Laugh in??) have found their little spot in the Meadow.  David mused earlier wondering "how old" I envision them at the Bridge.  And my simplistic mind says "Probably whatever age they want to be!" -- but I wouldn't be at all surprised if those two seniors, Foxy and Kee, might have just decided to be content being "mature" since that's when they found each other.  Sounds like happiness to me! 

For a little dog Kee was remarkably social -- and I can just imagine she's having the time of her life making new friends and being with Foxy and Mi shu ..

Thank you all -- you've been wonderful and your support has meant the world to us tonight.