Chuffy
Posted : 8/31/2008 7:20:58 AM
kle1986
from this whiny 3 year old!!! Please!!! I will be your slave as long as I dont hear anyone whine for about a month.
Samantha is driving me nuts!!!! CRAZY!!! I thought it was called terrible 2's not 3's. What's the deal? I so can not stand whinny kids. She isnt listening and has been whinning or crying constantly. I hate it when she is in one of those moods. It will last about a week and she'll be back to normal for about 5-6 months.
Tip: when she whines, imagine she is 9 months old and crying. It helps you to be sympathetic and patient, and also to pick up on a reason WHY she might be whining (like hunger, thirst, tiredness, boredom, overstimulation... the same basic checklist as when she was tiny).
Sometimes Will whines at me. I look right at him, on his level and I tell him, "That is a silly noise. What is the matter?" Usually he shuts up right away. Sometimes he signs to me so I know what it is he wants... and its usually nappy-change/snack/drink/nap/whatever. Occasionally he just wants my attention, but this is just as valid a need as food to a small child
Don't forget, Samantha might LOOK like a small adult, but she is much closer, developmentally, to still being a BABY, in that she is still at a point where she can get very frustrated and is not able to control or express herself well. 