calliecritturs
Posted : 4/12/2008 10:36:23 AM
Well let's see -- usually I don't come into that situation because LONG AGO -- when I first met them, and we talked about health issues I found out that the animal was unaltered.
Right then I began to tell them NOT to breed this dog (unless they were showing/winning and had tons invested in all the testing they did so they were educating ME about it).
I tend to find the easiest way tl dissuade people is to tell them how much work it is, and how incidious pyometra is. A friend of mine was adamant she was gonna breed her maltese, *despite* all I had said until she told me one day right after the girl's first heat that she was kinda lethargic, didn't feel good since her heat, and gee what *might* be wrong?
She said the word "lethargic" and I said "VET ... *now*!! and make sure the vet knows how recently this dog was in heat and that she's not spayed -- it sounds like pyo to me!"
It was -- the dog was unbelievably sick and she nearly lost her. The only way they didn't lose her was *because* they got her treated/spayed a.s.a.p. And NOW this gal things I'm 'smart' because I got her to spay her dog. It changed this woman's entire outlook -- thankfully.
Normally when people have baby booties and dollar signs in their eyes they don't listen -- but when you tell them about Whelping 101 and staying awake with the dog so she doesn't get in trouble with labor when no one's around, and can they take off work for a few months to make sure they don't lose puppies, and .... and ... and ... suddenly breeding sounds like more work than they thot.
but no -- people don't often offer puppies to me b/c they know I've nagged them from the beginning about when the heck are they gonna alter THIS dog and if not, why not, and aren't you concerned about longevity?
Yep -- I'm in their face way before that. And yep, some 'friends' go away never to return. Altho -- they often "return" when they have a health problem with their dog they want help with .... *sigh*