tacran
Posted : 8/16/2014 3:40:27 PM
Glenda, sending loads of strong and calming vibes to Todd's boss and his wife, as well as their extended family. If she can't recover, may her passing be as peaceful as possible.
@kpwlee
I may have proved myself too capable so I am being thrown into stuff that is pretty much a disaster.
As they say, Karen, the reward for a job well done is more work to do. I have experienced this "reward' many times in my working life, and it's not as satisfying as a bonus or pay increase would be!
I understand feeling emotional as a beloved dog shows signs of age. It's terrible, as you can't help but start thinking of how much time you've got left together. And Bugsy is definitely an incredibly special dog who most certainly is deeply rooted in your heart. Heck, I've never met him, and I feel like he's in mine!
Thanks for the support regarding the situation with my MIL. She SHOULD be in an assisted living place, but she refuses to move because she won't pay the extra expense. She's in an independent retirement facility -- she has her own little apartment, and they go to a common dining room for meals. Even before this latest downturn, she didn't go there daily because she hates the food and preferred cooking in her apartment (she fails to see how THAT is wasting the money she pays for 3 meals a day in her monthly rent, but whatever!).
They do laundry for residents, but she doesn't like it because they use detergent or fabric softener or something she doesn't like. We don't do her bed linens - we told her they have to do those because they remake her bed, too. We talked about getting some home aides to come in, but again she balks at the price. She CAN afford it, but thinks she can't -- instead she buys clothes she doesn't need from catalogues (which I end up having to ship back because it doesn't fit or she doesn't like them).
Okay, enough of my moaning. We enjoyed a quiet night last night, and slept in this AM without having to rush to get everyone's breakfast. DH came down with a head cold, so he's napping now. I'm trying to get motivated to run some errands. Looking forward to another quiet night.