calliecritturs
Posted : 9/14/2012 2:43:54 PM
rwbeagles
I just have no clue even what music reading IS, honestly. I don't "get it" kinda like Algebra. Which Lily is pretty good at understanding. Maybe you need a math mind more than an artistic one? I dunno...
"reading" music (i.e., knowing what note is on that space of line) is easy. A note on that line is an "E", etc. But hearing it in your head??? Whoa -- NOT easy and even after almost 5 years of lessons I never DID get to the place where I could "hear" music in my head like that? nope.
David and I were just talking about this the other day -- he's taught himself to play that cigar box guitar of his -- but he doesn't read "music" -- he just plays the Chord noted.
I laughed and told him I can "read" the notes. And I can even tell you that "chord" that's printed on the lines may be a C, E, & F -- and I can even see it 'quick' enough to put my fingers on those keys on the piano and press them at the same time (hopefully in psych with everything else), but tell me to play an F Major chord and I'm sunk ... because I never DID learn theory well enough to have chords be automatic.
I **wish** I knew music well enough so I could sit and effortlessly figure out what the chords would be to transpose something from the Key of C to the Key of A. I can sit and puzzle it out by what sounds right, but to *know* it?? Nope. (and purely envious of anyone who can!)
If she can transition it into "enjoyment" rather than just "school" it's great. And even for someone like me who just essentially went thru the motions for 5 years (because Mom said I had to despite the civil war it caused at home), when I DID get to a place (in college) with an instrument I liked (the autoharp) it made all that heinous practicing worthwhile.
And it was really pretty fun when I was in college, and later on my own, to discover that I really enjoyed some of the classical stuff I played. I giggle even now every time I hear someone's cell phone play Fuhr Elise -- because that was one of the first bona fide "Classical" pieces I ever played (just like Lily will probably remember "Morning" some day LOL)
But I think what you're being told and what you're seeing is that developing a musical skill developes a sense of accomplishment. It's totally different from math, sports or video games.
I know my husband derives a deep sense of contentment -- he never took ANY music in school at all, he can't 'read' music per se. He has always had a wide variety of musical likes (from Classical to the Beatles to a lot of ethnic cultural music (everything from Zydeco to bagpipes and American Indian music). But for *him* to produce it out of HIS fingers?? That's huge to him. Very late in life for him as well.
So good for Lily -- and good for you!!
[edited because I meant "synch" not "psych" -- but trust me, I don't play any better than I spell]