ron2
Posted : 12/6/2008 7:14:37 PM
I'm sorry for you to hear that Mike has passed on. From personal experience I know that we survive the failure of our bodies. I know you know that, too, not even as a matter of faith but as a certainty and, imo, doesn't even require faith. I don't need faith to know that an apple falls from the tree and hits the ground. And a person survives after they have passed on. His physical pain and duress is gone and he can see a lot of things now that were, at best, hazy before. And he's going to be with you and give you comfort.
I know what the lonliness feels like of losing a spouse or SO. Been there, done that, it was hell. You mourn the loss of not just him but what your future would become. And I have often told others that you have a backbone made of high tensile steel. We're still here for you.
Mike was a blessing to you and you are a blessing to us. I never met him and you, like I, do not reveal a lot about our SO's but he is special, indeed, and continues to be so.