Tomorrow is 9/11

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    Tomorrow is 9/11

    Would anyone like to join me tonight lighting a candle around 9pm, EST???
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    Absolutely!
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    Of course! I still remember exactly where i was and what i was doing when i turned on the TV and saw the first tower was hit and the secone while i was watching.I will never forget it and the undescribable feelings that hit me at the time.
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    Count me in!
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    We were moving from CA to WV.  Had stopped in a tiny little burg in Idaho or Iowa because it was right next to a laundramat.  DH woke up first that morning and turned to ESPN to see how the Red Sox had done the nite before....no ESPN.  I woke up thinking he was watching some freaky movie on TV awfully early in the morning.  Had literally just gotten awake when the second plane hit.  We ended up staying well over check out time in that room, glued to the TV and glued to the radio when we did finally get on the road.  AND, trying to reach my son who lives in Upstate NY, praying that THAT hadnt been the day he'd decided to meet the ex parent in NY city......
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    Thanks for lighting the candles!  I was at work and we have a TV in the waiting room.  As the news started getting worse more and more people were standing watching.  And, as the doctors heard they all came out and watched too.  It's not a sight you see everyday, doctors in scrubs in the waiting room watching TV.  I was really traumatized for awhile.  My brother was supposed to be in NY that day.  At the time he was in law school and he was always traveling around to meet friends in their hometown.  Thankfully, it turned out he didn't go.  But, one of the girls in his law firms father worked in one of the towers and he said she ran out of the office in a panic. 
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    I had off today, and spent a lot of time in the car with the radio and then at home cleaning my carpet in front of the TV.
    I am totally depressed again after watching all of this....but I think its a good thing to do. First it helps those that lost loved ones...but also as Americans we should never forget that day. Of course...how could we forget, but somehow the love and care that everyone gave eachother that day and the many days that followed,,,, have somehow been forgotten.    And as we walk thru the airports trying to get a flight out,,,and get mad that we seem to be hassled by the security people there...a day like this reminds us of why.    We must never forget 9/11!
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    On 9/11, I was in my car driving to work and heard the news on the radio (7:30 AM Pacific Time).  I almost turned around and went home.  I should have, since I got no work done that day, instead calling family back home in CT, trying to track down friends in NYC and DC.  It was awful to be so far away when I wanted to be there with my friends and family.  I spent days in front of the TV, and became a news junkie from that day on.
     
    Today I visited a memorial that was set up at our local riverfront park.  It was two sections of flags - one part of the park contained flags for every person who died on 9/11 and the other had them for everyone who has died in the war on terror since then.  The flags in the 9/11 section were specially made - they contained the names of every person (tiny writing to fit them all, but legible).  Instead of walking around the perimeter of the display, I walked into the middle of it.  Once there, I was surrounded by flags, much taller than I, and seeming to go on forever.  It was a gorgeous sky, just like the one in NYC that day, and all around me was the sound of them all fluttering in the strong breeze.  It was very stirring.  I kind of felt like the people's spirits were actively moving the flags.  To walk through nearly 3000 flagpoles, set into neat rows, was a sure way to feel the magnitude of the loss of life. 
     
    When I read the names on the flags, they were of all kinds - Italian, Irish, Polish, Asian, Latino, Middle-eastern, etc.  Obviously, the victims were as diverse as could be - all ages, races, walks of life.  But when I looked at the entire display from a higher vantage point, it was a striking image of how they were all exactly the same (in death, anyway) -- all those identical flags flapping in the same direction -- they were all people who lost their lives in a senseless, tragic manner, leaving the same kinds of holes in the lives of people they left behind.  Even 5 years later it's still incomprehensible.