Susan needs our good thoughts

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    Susan needs our good thoughts

    Susan (3girls) needs all our good thoughts, prayers and vibes for her son.  He recently moved to LA to be with his girlfriend.  I'm not sure how much she wants me to share (she asked for me to request idog vibes) so I will limit this to saying he's been hospitalized.  He's not in immediate danger but needs our strong vibes to get him through this very tough time. 

    (((Susan)))

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    Thank you Jackie.  Good vibes for Susan and her son streaming right now.

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    Thanks for posting this Jackie. (((Susan))) and prayers, healing vibes and be strong thots going out to your son.

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    Sending good thoughts her way, I know how frustrating it is if you aren't there.

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    Thanks for passing this on Jackie. I will be thinking good thoughts for Susan and her son too.

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    The Alpha of all Alphas (or however you think) knows all the details - we don't need to -- it's enough for us to lift her up in prayers, good thots and support. (thanks, Jackie)

    ((((Susan))))

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     Strong vibes on the way, and ((hugs)) to Susan.

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    We're sending good vibes!  Hang in there, Susan!

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    Strength for Susan.  With all the chaos last week with the wedding, her other son's HS prom, the repairs in the house... she must be going into this already a bit depleted.  Good wishes for her son's recovery.

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    Sending you vibes from Willow and I, Susan. 

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     As of late last night, Daniel wasn't doing any better. Physically he's fine, it was a non-lethal dose of medicines. I still don't know if it was an overdose or what. He did leave a note, he did tell a friend he didn't want to feel anymore...   Emotionally and mentally is a whole other story. He's at a level of pain that he's never been in before. He doesn't want to see or talk to anyone but the ex.

     The doctor that evaluated him recommended he not speak to her.  We were all in complete agreement with that. In spite of him stating how he now hates every one of us that wouldn't give her the number to call him.

    I spoke to her earlier in the day and had asked was there even a remote chance of them working things out and getting back together. As much as *I* don't like her, I still want my son to have a chance at being happy. She said no. There was no chance. She doesn't see their relationship being what they thought it would be... and a bunch of other self-centered stuff. I did keep my cool and requested that she help us at least until we can get him home. She agreed. (I'd be in an LA jail otherwise.)

    He finally got transferred late afternoon into the psych ward. Under California state law, they are not allowed to restrict him outgoing calls. So he got to call her, twice, that I know of.

    Hopefully he's starting to realize that it's over...

    My mom's flying out on Monday. Since he was hospitalized at 11:45pm Friday, we won't know until Monday night if he's being released after the 72 hrs... 

    I thank you all for the wishes and vibes and prayers. Please keep my son in your thoughts. I'm having a hard time staying positive that he's going to get through this in one piece.

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    3girls
    I'm having a hard time staying positive that he's going to get through this in one piece.

    Oh but you must!   He needs to be surrounded by as much positivity as possible.  Help yourself to get in a pure positive place, then work on him. This can be accomplished from anywhere you are.   Continued good thoughts from here to the east coast and the west coast for you and your son.  Staying up will help him to get out.  {{hugs}}

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    Susan, you and your family are in my thoughts

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    Susan, my pseudo nephew went through something very, very similar a couple of months ago.  But there's always hope so long as he's able to hear your words and feel your love and support.  He's in the hands of professionals right now, and that may make the difference to get him through these first few days.  (The professionals are what made the difference for my pseudo nephew, after two times in jail didn't.)  Best wishes for him in the days to come, that he can find his way through the pain back to the people who will always love and support him.

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    Oh Susan! You're in my thoughts and prayers for sure. One of my best friends went through this, that was a few years back - and he's doing great now. It was a long struggle. If you want to talk - you've got my contact info!

    (((hugs)))