Jackie's husband Charlie

I'm going to go in to the office for a while today.  I'll get the stuff done that has to be done and try and get stuff delegated and organized. hah  I hate not going to the hospital and spending the day there but it will probably help me to get some semblance of normalcy back.  Charles is still doing well.  I talked to the doctor about his "flat" emotional state and doc said it's completely normal.  I've read about the emotional effects from brain trauma but it's different when it's your loved one.  The doc said Charles will be in the critical care unit probably thru Friday.  I'm glad because of the intense care.  He's coming up on a period of risk for spasms and they will monitor him closely. 

I think I already told you all but my sister from Phoenix is coming in on Thursday.  Am I the only crazy woman who feels I have to clean my house?  I told her that last night and she said she's exactly the same. Crisis brings out the need to clean. Must be a family trait. It's actuall sort of cathartic for me and I spent a couple of hours last night cleaning like a mad woman. 

I took the cards up yesterday and it was the only time he smiled all day.  I was wiping away tears.  I wish I could think of a different way to say thank you.  You are the most incredible friends.  Don't think you don't make a difference.  I haven't read any other threads and I hope you are all ok and all the puppers are ok.  I talked to Tina the other night and felt so bad that I never asked about Agnes.  I also was thinking about Jan this morning and wondering if she had the baby yet.  Tina said Amanda's brothers dog was lost.  I hope they found her.  Please someone keep me updated on this stuff on this thread.  I think of you all often.   Hugging you all back.

Jackie, good to see you this morning. I am continuing my good thought for great continued progress for Mr. Charlie.

I would not freak out about needing the house clean, or even working, I did the same thing when Kevin had his heart attack. I could NOT sit still for hours on end, so I did come in and work some half days. I also cleaned my house, the yard and the car and tended the garden.

Just remember to rest.

 Thanks for dropping in again!  So glad the news remains good and that your sister is coming.  LOL does anyone not clean when stressed and having someone coming to visit?

sending you our best!

Jackie:  I'm so glad your sis is coming to support you.  I know she'll be a tremendous help to you.  We're all still here with all of our love for you and Charlie.

Deb W.

I'm so glad that your sister is coming and although I'm sure she couldn't care less about how clean your house is, I'd be the same way. I'm always relieved to start the day with a positive thread about Charles and hope that things continue to improve. Thanks for taking the time to keep us all updated.

Jackie, I'm so happy to see that everything is still going well!

Continued good thoughts coming from us.

It made me smile to know that he smiled when seeing all the cards.  More a comin'. 

Jackie, so awesome to hear from you.  I'm so glad that your sister is coming to stay with you for a while.  I hope that the dogs are also bringing you some sense of comfort. 

Here are some more ((HUGS)) to help you though the day.  Give our love to Mr. Jackie.  The Peanut & G send snuggles & kisses.

Jackie I couldnt wait til I could get here this morning and check on you guys!  Glad to hear Charlie is doing better and that you are trying to get some rest.  I understand your need to clean, when Ron is in the hospital I always feel the need to clean and organize for his arrival back home.  I happy to hear that your sis is coming, that will help when Charlie gets home to have a back up.  We are still praying for continued positive progress.  {{{{Hugs}}}} to you and Charlie.

 I'm so glad to hear that he's doing so well. Keep doing well, Charlie! 

 So glad to hear he's doing well!  I keep checking in, and sending good vibes for his continues recovery...

Cleaning is great--gives you control of something when everything else seems so totally out of your control. I'm so glad the cards gave Charles a bit of a smile--more are on the way from Rhode Island. Continued prayers and healing energy coming your way for you, Charles and the whole medical team taking care of him.

 Such great news Jackie.  I am also glad that you've gotten *some* sleep.

Don't worry about keeping up with us.  We can catch you up once things settle down.

Continued prayers coming from us to you both.  (((hugs)))

So glad to hear continued improvement.

And yeah, more cards are coming!

I think it is absolutely normal to clean when stressed.  If not, there are a whole lot of ABnormal women running around!

Continued prayers and healing thoughts coming your way.  Please remember to take care of YOU too.

Good to hear things are improving Jackie!  I'm assuming you'll have a spotless house by the time this is over with.  LOL  I can only imagine the stress this must bring with it.

You've got my thoughts and prayers as well as some good ole Canadian healing and comfort vibes.