My once very well behaved dog has turned into a total BRAT

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    My once very well behaved dog has turned into a total BRAT

    I used to live in a one bedroom apartment and I was able to leave him there all day and come home and he wouldn't pee/poo in the place. Then I moved to a place with a yard and he had two other dogs to play with and perhaps got spoiled by the situation.

    I had to move into a different place, and there's no yard but its got a large 2000 square foot living room that he can play in. He started spraying/*** in spots around the living room, and under advisement from a vet I got him neutered. It didn't make any difference.

    Now I have to take him in the car with me everywhere I go because not only does he pee, he lays like four piles of crap in the living room, pees in my roomate's room, and even after being fed will tear up food packages for an extra snack. Scolding him does no good. He knows its wrong but does it anyways. I'm tired of having to leave him in the car. He howls which is embarassing in front of clients, but I can't leave him at home because my roomates are tired of coming home to crap and pee.

    Reasons he may be unhappy with me: I haven't been walking him regularly or as much as I should, and my gf's landlord forbids dogs at her place, so he stays in the car overnight as a sort of a "crate" when I'm there. He's pissed/pooped even when we let him in her house aswell and she has carpet so it's really not ok for him to be pissing river puddles. (hes a black lab btw) I wonder if he poops so much because of the disney brand old yeller food. It was cheap. Any suggestions for a reasonably priced healthy dog food?

    And any suggestions to get him to stop messing my place?

    Thanks

    Nate
    • Gold Top Dog
    Firstly, the moving house has the dog scared.  Regression in house training is very common when moving house or if anything changes in a dogs environment and IME it makes no difference if the dog is neutered or not.  Marking is not just something related to over sexed animals.  It is often connected to stress (moving house is stressful enough for us humans but at least we know whats going on - if only we could explain it to our pets).  It is linked to insecurity - he's telling everyoen (and reassuring himself) that this is "his home".

    He should be confined in a secure, easily cleaned dog proof area when left so that he can't access things like food packets or tear up furniture.  Forbidden things should be kept out of his reach.  There is no way to teach him to do these things when you are not around, the only way is prevent the habit from occurring or becoming more ingrained by using confinement. 

    Give him plenty of opportunity to eliminate outdoors at regular intervals and praise like mad when he does.  Give him an extra special treat as well taht he only gets at this time - this will make him work ten times harder to get the treat and once he's figured out how to get it he will be really keen to "hold it" until let out.

    He doesn't know he has done wrong.  Really he doesn't.  Don't get angry if you come home and find mess.  If he looks "guilty" it's because he is displaying submissive gestures to try to deflect your anger.  He's not doing this to "get back at you" or because he is "unhappy with you".  You haven't met his needs and he is frustrated.  In order for him to be settled, well behaved and happy, you first need to meet his needs.  You can't have it all for nothing.  Having a dog is hard work, if you don't put the work in, then you get the kind of problems you have been experiencing.  I have a feeling you know this already.

    He needs more stimulation.  Walk him.  Labs needs loads of exercise.  All dogs need a fair bit of mental stimulation too - they are intelligent and if you don't give them a job to do, they'll find one and you probably won't like it.  Play games with him - ones that engage his body AND his mind.  Train him every day.  Practise old cues and teach new ones.  Give clicker training a try - it's tiring for dogs.  When you leave him, leave him with an interactive toy like a Busta cube or a stuffed kong and some safe chews. 

    You said the car is like a kind of "crate" - does he actually have a crate?  This would be useful and I highly recommend it but you should introduce it kindly, make it a place he likes to be, never use it as a punishment and don't leave him cooped up in it for long periods. 

    In addition, leaving him in your car is not safe.  On warm days (it doesn't have to be that hot) the risks are obvious.  Black dogs are more susceptible to heat exhaustion than lighter shades so he's even more at risk.  Someone could steal him.  Over here, the interior of your car is classed as a public place (if the car is parked in a public place)  So if you leave a window a little bit open for the dog and a child stuck their hand in and got bitten, the dog comes under the DDA, the owner is liable and the dog could be destroyed.  It's worth checking out dog laws in your area to make sure you aren't risk from something like this.

    You don't say what house training you have given him or what efforts you are taking at the moment to ensure he is empty before being left or taken into a building, these things are relevant.

    You should take him to your vet for a check up and stop buying cheap food.  For him to be peeing so much and unexpectedly may be a sign of infection or similar.  The vet could also help you out to find a food more suitable for him.  Again, I think you already know this.

    You need to make this dog a priority in your life.  If any of the above is not possible for you, please consider giving the dog up to someone who can meet his needs.
    • Gold Top Dog
    he needs to go back to housebreaking 101. Often dogs only learn to not-potty in house #1, and when they move to house #2, they really have no idea where they are supposed to potty.
    And yes, the massive piles of poop are from the cheap crap food you are feeding. Mosey on over to the Nutrition board for some ideas.
    He's not mad at you. He's just undertrained and underexercised.
    • Gold Top Dog
    The goodnews: your dog isn't mad at you and he isn't being a brat.
    The badnews: he needs to be retrained in a new house and being stuck in the car overnight can't be helping him settle into his new home.
     
    I agree with you that a better food could help, you may want to peruse the Nutrition forum for more info. Off the top of my head Canidae and Chicken Soup for the Dog Lover's Soul are two very reasonably priced quality kibbles.