glenmar
Posted : 3/25/2009 8:51:13 AM
Regardless of what is used, it is simply a tool to make training easier.
I'm not sure that it's always a case of the owner messing up. Sometimes life gets in the way of our best intentions, or we change what we thought was the best course of action. When I broke down and resorted to a prong for Thor he was in that ugly teenage phase, headstrong, physically stronger than me and something had to work or he simply wasn't going to get walks. Stopping, making like a tree, simply did not work with Thor. He would literally pull me off my feet and drag me behind him. This, when I tried looping the lead around my body so that I had a litle more power behind it. Didn't matter. But, Thor taught me a lot and subsequent dogs have been better trained from the get go.
With Tyler, when he is on a regular lead he tends to be a dog. However, if I put a martingale lead on him, he knows that he's in "work" mode and is letter perfect. Sometimes a tool can make a huge difference in demeanor and behavior. Tyler isn't "bad" on any lead, but when I put the "working" lead on him, he's all business. It's not ok for him to act like a "dog" when we are visiting folks who are 80 plus years old. And, I conceed that this might be training, because my expectations of my dogs are not as high as those of others. I consider the walk to be FOR them and so long as they are being polite, I don't care if they wander a bit or do some sniffing. And, before we enter the facility, when I put that lead on I remind Tyler that its time to work and that he has to be extra good, extra polite and extra gentle around the old people. They understand far more than we think they do.
If you opt for a prong, be sure to place it where the regular collar would go. High up on the neck maximizes discomfort. Keep a short lead, but not tense, and remind your dog before there is any tension on the prong. The goal is not to hurt your dog, but simply to reinforce your wishes in the most gentle manner possible. And really, set your own goal of being able to ditch the prong in a specified amount of time. With Thor he wanted to wear his jewelry LONG after I stopped using the darned thing
I will agree that the very most important tool at your disposal is your voice. TALK to her and talk to her a lot. Not just when she's doing something wrong, but also when she's doing something RIGHT. I'm sure folks around here think that I'm a crazy lady because I'm constantly chatting with my dogs, constantly pointing out the stuff that they might want to chase IF I didn't see it first. And, if she's fearful, I'd really suggest a nicely padded martingale lead or collar as a starting point.