Just an aside to DPU - the advice is NOT different in the sense that anyone can use marker or clicker training to modify a dog's behavior. All that needs to happen is for the dog's handler to realize how to use the tool, and what behavior to modify. As Karen Pryor reminds us, it's just behavior. We humans are the ones who complicate things.
Now, to our OP, my answers in boldface:
Thank you Ron for clarifying the abbreviations. :-) It can make it a little confusing.
I am not apposed to learning about the clicker training. I was just surprised that it was the only one that was mentioned.
I know that it isn't popular for dogs to not live in the house. Our Rottweiler had that place until a couple of weeks ago. Both dogs that are in the basement have spent some time in the house. The pointer prefers the outside although she will tolerate being inside fopr periods of time. She will also sneak off to peepee in a hidden place. So it has just always been easier to let her stay out. And since we are both outside people all year round, they are not left outside alone for 23 1/2 hours a day.
It's good that your dogs receive a lot of human attention. I don't know who trained your Pointer, but dogs that sneak off to pee are usually ones that have been scolded for accidents during the house training process, or who are spay incontinent and are depositing wet spots where they nap. You could always go back to square one on the house training (you can PM me for my method) and try to address any incontinence issues with medication.
The other mixed breed Bear used to live inside with the Rottie, but she came to us as an adolescent afraid of everything that moved and we have tried to overcome that and have to a certain extent, but she would cower and cry out if you even moved too fast or a plastic bag rattled, and would pee on the floor just a little bit. And the crying out started to trigger the attack mode in the Rottie, so it was easier, and yes if I had brought in the pros we might have overcome all of it, but i didn't, she went outside to live with the other dog. And although she doesn't get to sleep inside with us, she has bloomed into a different dog out from under the fear of the Rottie. She is still afraid of things that for the 8 years she has been with us has never hurt her, but she is so much better. She has a fantastic recall and will come and sit right in front of you, EXCEPT when something has really scared her, then she will hightail it for her kennel.
It was kind of you to take in a dog that obviously did not receive adequate socialization during the critical period (8-12 weeks of age), and you were also kind to remove her from the threat of bodily harm from a dog with high prey drive. Your realization that professional advice might have been helpful is good, since you obviously want to learn, and are open to doing better for your dogs all the time, but in all honesty, you can never go back and recapture puppy hood no matter how hard you try, although some of the fear issues can be made better (not perfect, as you have seen). Lurkers should take note of the puppy developmental stages, and be sure they are training appropriately at each stage, beginning VERY early.
We have kept the Rottie separate from the pointer for years, and although it has been a chore sometimes, it was worth it for their safety.
I wish I could convince more people of the wisdom of that statement. Always better safe than sorry...
Now the rottie is gone, and I want to spend as much time as I can making the two we have still into "better" members of the family. I may or may not get another dog, if i do it will live inside, but I want it to be able to associate with the others without there being a melee every time. I have no intention of just throwing another dog into the mix. i don't want to add trouble to a fairly peaceful situation. I also don't want to make it sound like these dogs are hanging on each other's throats. they might jump on each other a few times in a year. Once is too much for me if i am there. I can tell by their body language that if we weren't diligent, it would be more often, and I just feel like that needs to addressed, whether we can watch for it and counteract it or not.
In this situation, I would advise you to get a puppy if you can, since most older dogs tolerate pups way better than adults. I would get a pup with a more subordinate disposition than your more problematic dog, and I would get opposite gender from that dog, too. Then, begin at age 8 weeks with socialization and training at a good positive training center (PM your location and I'll help you find one). You will learn enough that way, hopefully, to make your future dog owning experiences even better, without the problems you encountered thus far. Alas, that's how all of us learn, though, and your experiences will soon be filtered through your improving knowledge. I would say, despite any cyberwrangling that goes on here, that this is a good board, and I hope you hang around. You may not always agree with us, and we all do batter one another around occasionally, but overall, it's a good "family", and even the snottiest among us has often bent over backward to help another member, or to save a dog.
The pointer we keep away from people entirely. I don't like that, but I will not take the chance with her. She has always been like that, and I take the blame for allowing it for the years that i have been around her.
There is no shame in admitting the truth, or in managing a dog to keep her from making what could be a fatal mistake!
How far I can get with our dogs, I don't know. I want to try. The training I did with our Rottie was seat of my pants, I had never trained a dog. We went to obedience classes, she loved everyone, and other dogs, then when she was a few years old she got arthritis, and she changed. She got grouchy, started to not tolerate other dogs, and when she started that, I became worried about how she would react to children and kept her away from them. She liked people away from home but was opposed to strange men, not women, at the house, and would have to be introduced to a man away from home before she would allow him any peace in our house. Or just reptitive visits like from our farrier. A man who showed fear of her would have no peace, and although she never made a move towards anyone ever, she would make a person uncomfortable. I may have overreacted on keeping her under control around paople, she may have been just fine, but my gut said it was more important to err on the side of caution than to think everything would be ok and maybe it wouldn't.
Also, a good decision based on your inexperience. Rotts are tough for first time or "seat of the pants" owners, since many of them develop a healthy guarding instinct at the age of social maturity, which can certainly be complicated by health issues. You are to be commended for erring on the side of caution. You can get pretty far with your dogs, or dogs in general, by relying on good scientific knowledge, and not hype, tradition, or expediency;-)
That's my story. I learn well form reading, watching videos, etc. i figure it can do nothing but help to read, watch, and learn and spend some time working with our dogs. I thank everyone for all your inputs.
Julie, if you like videos, I have one word for you - Tawzer.
"Really Reliable Recall" DVD Leslie Nelson
"Multiple Dogs" DVD Trish King
And, some book recommendations:
"The Culture Clash" Jean Donaldson
"For the Love of a Dog" and "Feeling Outnumbered?" Patricia McConnell
"Click to Calm" Emma Parsons
"Clicker Training for Obedience" Morgan Spector