Cassidys Mom
Posted : 7/12/2008 6:53:25 PM
I've read all the posts, and don't see any answers either. Are they in code? JK! Maybe you can point them out to the more dense among us. Specifically the parts of your posts that are answering the questions, not just a vague "read my previous posts and your questions will be answered", 'cause I'm not getting it.
I also reject the premise that anticipation equals anxiety. Anticipation can be a happy state. I can see how expectation might create anxiety - if you set up your dog to expect that any time he appears interested in food he'll get some, what happens when for some reason you can't give him more? Because the food you have (chocolate?) is bad for dogs, because they dog is overweight and needs to trim down, because the dog needs to be fasted for blood work or surgery, or because he's been vomiting and his digestive system needs a rest?
If a dog learns that although he always gets what he NEEDS, sometimes he does and sometimes he doesn't get what he WANTS, he'll adapt to that. And if he learns that he needs to behave in a certain calm controlled way, he can have what he wants, but if he's wild and unruly, or pushy and persistant, he won't, he'll adapt to that too. Pretty quickly, in my experience, so I don't see how that would throw them into some awful state of perpetual stress, which I completely agree is a harmful state.
I want to address the "dogs do what works thing". DPU, you say this is just an excuse. I've never heard anyone offer it as an excuse before, and frankly, I don't understand how it could be used that way. An excuse for what?
I see it as a statement of fact, an explanation of how dogs learn. If a dog learns that jumping on people works to get him attention he will continue to do so. If a dog learns that he will be ignored if he jumps on people, but sitting calmly and politely works to get him attention he'll do that instead. How is that a harmful process for a dog? When you raise dogs from puppies these are important things to teach them, because dogs that don't learn basic manners and obedience are the ones that end up in shelters.