corvus
Posted : 6/21/2008 3:46:26 AM
Hmm, good point, Gina. It seems to me that Penny does this mostly when she wants to play, but KT is clearly a teensy bit anxious about it, although a few weeks on she does it less and invites play by more conventional means, and when she does still do it KT pretty much ignores it or tries to initiate play, which he spends about 80% of his time doing anyway.
Mudpuppy, in Penny's experience size does matter because when a bigger dog gets tired of her bullying, she can't physically overpower them. Inevitably, dogs get tired of very controlling behaviour and like any schoolyard bully, when they do get tired of it, Penny is required to resort to violence if she is to maintain control. Typically, she fails to physically overpower the dog and subsequently abandons the hyper-controlling tactics in favour of trying to avoid conflicts instead of starting them all the time. It's happened to her 4 or 5 times, now, to varying degrees. Some dogs don't take bullying at all so it doesn't last long.
I think that KT like every other dog Penny has ever lived with will eventually get tired of her controlling behaviour and test her. When he discovers the worst she can do to him is lose a physical contest, the dynamics will change. And that's just one reason why I don't think it's a good idea to train dogs through punishment or physical corrections. But yeah, I most certainly agree it's about who wants it more, but I expect there will come a time when KT discovers he doesn't want any more bullying every bit as much as Penny wants to maintain her sense of control and we'll have a defining moment. Or maybe he'll put up with her bullying indefinitely, but as even dopey, amiable Jill got tired of it within a few weeks, and shy Chloe got tired of it after 2 years, and Raz the Gentleman put his foot down after about 2 days, I am expecting it to happen eventually. Penny is not a very happy dog when she's in hyper-control mode.