sitting on our feet?

    • Gold Top Dog

    sitting on our feet?

    Our dog, when out and about, and we have stopped to talk to neighbors or people passing in cars, will back up and sit down on our feet when we tell her to sit.  She sometimes then, will lie down on our feet as well.  The other thing she does is, if we are sitting on the floor playing with her, when she tires of playing, she will come over for some ear rubs and then turn around, back up and try to sit on one of our laps.  I am not sure if she realizes she is far too large to do this, as she even tries to sit on my youngest daughter's lap!

    My mom, who is a non-dog-owning, self proclaimed dog expert simply because she watches "The Dog Whisperer" seems to think she is trying to show dominance.  Misty is not a dominant dog.  I'd say she's about 75% submissive, but has a little assertiveness in her when it comes to certain things.  It makes her fairly trainable, and she is generally a good girl with very few traits that we would change!  She listens well, even when my 3 year old shouts out NO Misty!!!!  Or Come Misty!!!!  I've explained to my mom that I think it has more to do with her feeling like she is part of the pack and/or for comfort reasons than it being her saying she is dominant. I would think she would have other dominant behavior besides sitting on us.  I have to wonder if my mom would still think she is dominant if she were an 8lb poodle crawling in our laps for a snuggle vs. a very TALL 50lb mixed breed.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I think she is "claiming" you.  She is saying to anyone and everyone around that you guys are her "people." 

    • Gold Top Dog

     Well some of it might just be comfort especially when outside. I've noticed when I go to the dog park my dad is a magnet when it comes to dogs who decide his big feet and soft flat shoes make the perfect place to sit or lie down for a rest.  For some dogs it might be away of being assertive but I think a lot just like to cuddle and plop on something warm.  Most dogs will simply test the boundaries to see what they can do to their human companions just like they do to their canine ones.  For instance my dog Kirby is also very submissive when it comes to people.  Yet he'll happily settle his little butt and do the half sit on my dad whenever he pleases.  However he doesn't do that to me because the first few times he tried it I let him know that I don't like little dogs using me as a cushion uninvited.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Hektor likes to sit on feet. I do not consider it dominant. If he had his way he would lay in my lap, but he is way to large for that so he contents himself with laying on or as close to my feet as he can get.

     

    • Gold Top Dog

    It's not dominance. Dogs feel comforted when they sit on feet/ laps or do the "I love you lean". Anything you see on CM's Dog Whisperer TV show is a good guide to "what not to do with dogs/ this is complete crap".

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    thanks everyone.  I suspected it wasn't dominance...and my mom drives me batty with her so-called dog knowledge.  She has had one dog her whole life, and only for a few years and my grandma mostly took care of her (she lived with her).  I got all my dog experience as a teen by living with my dad!!! (who always has wonderfully behaved dogs, and doesn't proclaim himself an expert!)

    • Gold Top Dog

     AWWWW!  Misty is adorable.  She looks like my favorite mix Golden/Collie. 

    The sitting on the feet thing is normal for Goldens and other retrievers.  They just want to be touching you if you are standing still as a way, I believe to be sure you realize they are there.  If there are no behaviors that are problematic to you, don't worry about things like dominance.  If she responds well to your commands who cares if she sits on you feet. 

    By the way it is a sweet habit that you will grow to love! 

    • Gold Top Dog

    River is a "sit on my foot and lean... in" dog!!  This way he is close and he knows he will automatically get a petting session.Big Smile   There is nothing dominate about it.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I would say it can be a manipulative move, but not necessarily a dominant one.  Now my friend had a GSD that did the "sit on feet, lean in, adoring gaze" thiing, to "make" her owner pet her. If my friend STOPPED- the dog growled.  I mean REALLY growled.  Now that I might say had something to do with dominance (although it could just be the dog somehow learned that growling meant mum would keep fussing her), but in Misty's case, no, very probably not.  When your mum starts on about the Dog Whisperer just nod,smile, and change the subject and roll your eyes when shes not looking.

    • Gold Top Dog

     My pointer will sit on my feet and look up at me adoringly backwards and upside down.  She is also an adoring leaner.  The only time I think she is trying to claim me is when my setter is getting attention and she gets in between and does this sort of thing.
     

    I usually ignore her and continue what I'm doing with Trudy, my setter.

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    I had a dog that always sat on my feet and slept on my slippers! I attributed it to his insecurity since I was the second owner. He didn't need to worry as he had found his forever home.
    • Gold Top Dog

    mudpuppy

    It's not dominance. Dogs feel comforted when they sit on feet/ laps or do the "I love you lean". Anything you see on CM's Dog Whisperer TV show is a good guide to "what not to do with dogs/ this is complete crap".

    IYO, (In Your Opinion)...

    ...which I, (and a lot of other folks), do not share. Although, I do agree that your assessment is correct some of the time with certain dogs, in specific situations.

    Physical contact is not one dimentional, IMO.

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    Angelique
    One physical behavior can mean many things which include many variables

    I completely agree with this statement.  The more I thought about it, the more I realized just that.  My dogs are both very sweet and loving and want to be as close to me as possible.  Heidi is guardy as it is a GSD trait.  However, she too simply wants to be as close as possible.  Is she claiming me? Maybe...trying to prove something to Buddy.  Is she just being affectionate?  Likely... now that I have thought about it and observed her behavior more closely with that in mind. 

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    Angelique

    mudpuppy

    It's not dominance. Dogs feel comforted when they sit on feet/ laps or do the "I love you lean". Anything you see on CM's Dog Whisperer TV show is a good guide to "what not to do with dogs/ this is complete crap".

    IYO, (In Your Opinion)...

    ...which I, (and a lot of other folks), do not share. Although, I do agree that your assessment is correct some of the time with certain dogs, in specific situations.

    Physical contact is not one dimentional, IMO.

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    Hmmm....I was under the impression that this was all opinion.... 

    • Gold Top Dog

    Tis true.