denise m
Posted : 3/19/2008 11:25:17 AM
New2Puppies
But I want to know what you all allow your dogs to do in the house and how they behave in the house. Do you keep them on command at all times, or just when you want them to be?
Thanks for the advice in advance as I am very frustrated over it all. Specifically because the class was $900, and some of that money is lost because we quit the class. :(
I think most members here would agree that house 'freedom' is an earned privilege. The more you can trust your dog the more freedom they are given. This comes with training, patience and time. The younger the dog usually means more control. A year old is still pretty young IMO. The training your dog received does sound a little strict. I have never heard of not allowing play, cuddles or having to remain in a down position. That is just weird! However roaming around free could be asking for trouble especially with a young dog. I think it is much better to start out restricting when and where your dog is allowed and as he matures and becomes more reliable simply expand his area.
I think it is very important for every dog owner to be very clear about their expectations in regard to 'life with their dog". Some people do not want their dogs having free access to the home. They want them confined to certain areas. They don't want them on the furniture. They don't want them running or playing in the house. Others want their dogs to have full access, no restrictions. Mi Casa es tu Casa! There is nothing wrong with either or anything in between. The point is, if you are clear on what you want then you can train towards that goal.
Personally my dog (5yr) has full access to our home - counter tops, living room furniture excluded. He has a designated area to eat and chew bones. He can sleep where ever he likes, except in my bed (when DH is home). He will leave a room when asked and stay in a down if asked. He will not beg for food. He is allowed to play and of course he is cuddled and petted. And basically those are his rules. He was a good 2, 2 1/2 yrs old before it all fell in place.
I don't think your training was a waste as it sounds like your dog is now very controllable. Which is good. Now you have to start loosening up and teaching him self-control. Just be clear what limits you want to place on him and be consistent with those.