calliecritturs
Posted : 1/28/2008 8:24:04 PM
Red ... pick him up and set him on the bed or somewhere you can really look at him. Lift his upper lip and look at his gums. Are they nice and pink as they should be? If white that is literally a vet emergency.
The other thing to do is press the tip of your finger on his gum pretty firmly for maybe 10 seconds ... let go and the gum should snap back to 'pink' right away. Both of those can be signs of internal bleeding.
Very carefully touch him gently all over. Make sure he is putting weight on all 4 legs. Carefully touch his belly, all over his legs, back and chest. Do you get any reaction or reluctance to let you touch him anywhere?
My point is -- look him over really well to make sure he didn't get seriously injured.
Then honestly -- while you have houseguests like this, go and buy 3 small crates and crate them IN YOUR ROOM while you are gone. (lock your door if you have to -- but they shouldn't bother with the dogs if you aren't there.)
You can leave radio/tv on while you're gone. Crating is not cruel -- and I think it's Chico who is a bit afraid of the crate, so if you crate the other two you can leave him out of the crate but IN your room with the door shut. He may not be terribly happy but it's easier than him getting hurt or plagued to death. (and frankly this may be part of your answer about why he's been so ill-tempered lately)
there are times when you gotta do what you gotta do in order to keep them safe. If this won't work for some reason then figure out what you CAN do to keep the dogs out of everyone's way. Just saying "you shouldn't do that" isn't going to work (particularly if you are the obvious one who treats the dogs 'better' and no one else cares as much as you do).
It's too hard for Mom to make sure they stay out of everyone's way (even if she claims she'd be glad to do it) -- when you have a volatile situation like that sometimes you just plain have to take things into your own hand and MAKE SURE no one can get to your dogs.