Truley
Posted : 1/27/2008 10:16:29 AM
Forgive the late reply to this. For the record we went out and there was alot of food and hugging and no dogs. Back to the topic............
Ok, you have confused me yet again DPU, I though you had hugging/affection issue's with Baily, not Barnum. And for the record I would have preferred not to debate by attacking your work as a foster, I am just unclear about this.
And I think your trying to move the topic to yet another direction, this has nothing to do with leadership or dominance. But it has alot to do with your status in the eyes of the dog. Once again I say it is all about you, and dang the feelings of the dog in question.
I taught Kord this cute little trick, high five and down low. It took 15 minutes and some leftover White Castle french fries. It all came down to wants and needs, he wanted the french fries, and I needed to do NILIF, so a trick was born. Today if you ask him to do this he gets a pat on the head, a toss of the ball, and once in a great while, food. I would not even think to hug him, he is not wired that way.
I have no delusions that my dog would ever think that affection to/from me is more important than the cocktail wieners I brought home from the party last night. He very politely sat to the side while my husband and I put the food we brought home into containers, but I could see his mind working, he was sending me signals and they were..."drop one, come on, you know you want to, do it, then you can let me eat it, come on weiner hit that floor, must beat the cat, wait, where is the cat?, she might say leave it, then the cat will get it, come on weenie you can do it, no no no, not the lid......." For the record he got a meatball instead for sitting so pretty and being polite, and this was after he had consumed over the day, 4 cups of adult kibble, half a banana, a quarter of a bologna and cheese sandwich, some cat food the boys missed and 3 gallons of water.
I believe I read a statement from you that said you thought you were the only one who your dogs greeted first, then went outside, then came into eat. I am sorry, I do not find that a credible statement that they find affection from you first and foremost in their thinking, I would call it routine, or classical conditioning. It is what you have taught them to do.