corvus
Posted : 2/27/2008 3:18:53 AM
I go and bask in the wine country catching threatened gliders for a few days and a fascinating discussion breaks out in my absence!
I'm a little tired and brain dead right now, so I'll get back to this thread later, but I just wanted to comment on the nagging philosophy. I think whether nagging is a good tactic or not depends. Personally, I'm finding I quite like the nagging because I don't want the behaviour in question to never occur, or I don't have an incompatible behaviour I can train instead, or I just want to set up a habit, and I don't think it has a very big impact on the relationship. I'm annoying to my animals sometimes, but that's fair because they're annoying to me sometimes. I don't expect us all to be into each other at all times. If they want something from me they nag me until I do it and if I want something from them I'll nag them until they do it. But what I like about nagging is that there's no have to. If I don't want to cave into the nagging, I don't have to, and I know they'll ignore my nagging if what they're doing is very rewarding, and that tells me some pretty valuable information about them and their drive to continue this behaviour. If they're ignoring my nagging, I figure this is a behaviour they need an outlet for and I can find a suitable outlet for it that doesn't need my nagging and we're all happy.
If I wanted a behaviour to stop, I can use nagging combined with a rewarding alternative behaviour to make the undesirable behaviour a high cost one and the desired a high benefit one. However, if it was something I didn't want to mess around with, I would probably do something else, although I might use nagging as well.
With Kit being a very difficult animal to train without freaking out, I've found nagging to be a very valuable tool. However, it works both ways and he nags me quite a lot as well. But hey, it's cool to be communicating with each other, even if a lot of it is in nags. When it comes down to it, I don't often come across behaviours I want to stop immediately forever. I like letting the animals tell me what they want. If that happens to be to chew on my carpet, then at least I know what they want and I can then set about providing a suitable alternative.