FourIsCompany
Posted : 1/15/2008 12:08:41 PM
glenmar
HOW is that different from what I said he said
I'm not the referee here. When someone speaks of their experience, that's all it is. They're not trying to force to you change how you treat your dogs. It's all about making the other one wrong and I just get sick of the petty scrapping. "He said this" ... "Well, she said this"... It's called difference of opinion. Different experiences, even. Different dogs. Go ahead and scrap if you want, but it you were FORCED to quote something before you argued with it, there'd be a lot less of that crap and a lot more discussion of what's important. In my opinion. 
My opinion AND experience is that there are many dogs (like 2 of mine) who would be great with 2-20 minute walks a day. But Oh, No! We can't be saying that! There are other dogs (like 2 of mine) who would chew up my house if they didn't get 2 hours. So what do we do here? Who's right? You both are. Can you live with that?
glenmar
And frankly, some of the claims made on this forum are quite unbelievable. Not just because of the source of the claims, and knowing what type of dog those folks own, but because IN MY EXPERIENCE, it doesn't work.
Glenda, if a dog isn't used to exercise, but they have a mellow mentality and can play with another dog for 1/2 hour in the house, that is sometimes enough. I believe that in your experience with your dogs you haven't seen that. But there is more to a dog than his breed. Believe it or not (and we all know we can't believe everything we read), not all dogs need an hour fast running a day. Before Jaia came here and we built the fence, sometimes Cara and Mia got a 10 minute walk. But they had the yard and they played together and they were FINE. Believe me or not, but I'm not lying. I didn't know what exercise requirements were until I got Jaia. And would 2-20-minute walks work for him? I have no idea.
glenmar
Yet, when I say that in my experience it doesn't work, I'm told that *I* don't know how to do it...whatever IT might be.
I get frustrated with this too. And it's not about carrying the CM flag. I don't carry the clicker +R banner and I can't count how many times I've been told that I just don't know how to do it in so many words. My God! I've been told horrible things about my dogs, my relationship to them and how messed up I'm making them... By people who have never met me or my dogs and have no clue. You just have to laugh at it! Well, you don't have to, but that's what I do. Nobody here - and I mean NOBODY - is any more of an "expert" on my dogs than I am.
But yeah, it's gets old. I hear that. But it's not about which flag you carry, trust me.