FourIsCompany
Posted : 12/5/2007 12:44:25 PM
Benedict
I don't think it should be a dictatorship.
I don't either. And I have never once said or thought, "I am your dictator."
Benedict
Maybe it's more like someone managing a team in a workplace.
And what's another word for that? Starts with B. LOL
mudpuppy
I view my role as guiding the dog to WANT to make the choices I want him to make.
This boss/team leader/ dictator/guide thing is a matter of semantics, I believe.
Benedict
Blind obedience, in the sense that the dog would be looking to me to make every single decision for him (do I sniff this leaf, or that rubbish bin?) is just as disagreeable to me, in a dog, as complete disobedience.
It is also very disagreeable to me. One of the most precious things to me is that I watch and learn from my dogs. I would learn nothing from them if I were making all their decisions for them. I don't think I've ever indicated that I do that. People may interpret what I've said as that, however. That's not my fault as I have been VERY clear (I believe) from the start.
When I was working outside the home (in the electronics industry, at Intel, GTE, Siemens, etc.) I had many bosses. And the best ones were those who told me what they wantedmade sure I understood and then trusted me to figure out how to get there. I had some really good and some really bad bosses (who micromanaged every minute). There were times I had to "disagree and commit" to doing what my boss
wanted even though I wanted to do it differently or thought it would be
better done differently, but since he or she was the boss, I did it the
way they wanted.
I am a really good boss. Boss is not a bad word. It is not at all the same as "dictator".
Boss - a person who exercises control or authority; specifically : one who directs or supervises workers
Dictator - one holding complete autocratic control c: one ruling absolutely and often oppressively