FourIsCompany
Posted : 12/2/2007 11:59:41 AM
houndlove
The entire point of that is to show that you are scary and should be listened to for that very reason.
There is much in your post that I disagree with, but this makes it clear why people don't like this technique. Let me just say that I was never angry, and the point was NOT to show that I was scary. The last thing I want is for my dogs to be scared of me.
I never read about the "alpha-wolf roll-over" as discussed in the Monks' book. (Are they really the first ones to talk about the technique? No one before them ever used the alpha roll?) But did they want the dogs to be scared of them? I have looked it up and I can't even find what they said. But I have seen another modern-day "dog psychologist" use a similar technique and I'm convinced that it is not, in any way, about anger, pain, fear or other emotion.
I'm sorry you were told all that crap about your dog thinking he was better than you and stuff. That sounds very unfortunate and I can understand why you are so against it, but that's not at all where I am coming from. And maybe I shouldn't call what I did the "alpha roll". But since it's a "roll" and since it's about me being "alpha", it works for me to use that term. But it's NOT about anger, pain or fear.
houndlove
But if your kid has done something that warrants a spanking, the entire point is that kid just made you angry.
That's not how I understand it at all and I'm glad I wasn't involved in that discussion! The entire point would be to punish the child (using the OC definition). In other words, you don't spank a child because you're angry, you spank a child to lessen the chance of him repeating the offense in the future.