glenmar
Posted : 10/21/2007 6:21:34 AM
Now, for what I wanted to say on a personal level........
Tyler is flat out terrified of shiney floors, and even bare floors. I know the reason and the history and had I tried to force the issue, it would have simply made him more fearful.
I could watch this boy gather his courage to make a dash across the floor.....the more frightened he was, the faster he moved and thus increased his liklihood of falling on the floor, just reinforcing his fear. He wanted SO badly to do what I asked him to do, but the terror of those floors almost paralyzed him.
So, ok, now I'll be accused of humanizing my dogs, but.......my terror of snakes is just as danged irrational as his of floors. Probably more so because I've never actually had a horrible experience with snakes....other than seeing them and having the spit scared out of me. He HAS fallen, and fallen numerous times, primarily in the horrible home that I sent him too. *I* misjudged, *I* made a dreadful placement error, and now it's MY job to fix that mistake in the most kind and humane manner I can find.
To do that, at the very least I will START with using rugs to make him feel more secure. That's the ONLY first step I'm willing to take. And it has worked wonderfully. He has come to trust that I will make sure it's safe for him to move about. And, as I said, other than the rugs at the entrance doors to minimize mess in the house, the ONLY rug I have in the house is in the hallway which is longish and can be dark. The boy who would once stand at the end of the hall trying to get enough courage to race down that scarey hallway to come to the bedroom, now STROLLS and even lays in the same hallway.
When we go someplace he will now look to me for reassurance that it's ok to proceed at a normal pace, instead of planting his feet and refusing to go, or overcoming his terror and racing over the suspect area and perhaps falling again.
To me, it's about doing what is best for my dog, because I know them better than any other person in this world ever will. Regardless of who they are, or what methods they use.
To the OP, I strongly suggest going slow and easy with this. Once a fear starts, irrational or not, it's really tough for them to overcome it, and time, patience, and again, a lot of rugs will help to slowly desensitize your dog to those floors.