Ixas_girl
Posted : 10/7/2007 8:09:22 PM
spiritdogs
They do as I ask in the hope that they will reap a reward that they want. Because I consistently reward copiously for good behavior and allow poor behavior to extinguish, they defer to me pretty much automatically.
Yes, exactly. We all exercise control over our dogs, whether it's through rewards and "requesting" or boundary setting and "insisting", whether we watch the National Geographic Channel or buy lots of books from Dogwise, whether we use a clicker or a "tsst", none of us has advocated the right of dogs to choose to rush through the door and knock us off our feet. We've all simply explained the mechanics of how we understand that we achieve order. We've all advocated our favorite attitudes and techniques for deciding what happens, and when.
Every time a newbie comes on this forum describing how little control they have over their dog, the first suggestion many people make is to begin NILIF or grab a clicker - 2 very focused instruments for directing and controlling behavior! Whether or not we all want to be perceived as "dominant", we could certainly be accused of being control freaks
... LOL!
In the end, we all work to direct our dogs to display the appropriate behaviors at the appropriate times. I actually think that's rather a lot of common ground! Now, the details in how we achieve this common end should be fascinating and illuminating!